The REAL Reason Most People SUCK at Cold Calling...
What this video covers
Cold calling frequently fails because traditional pitch-heavy scripts trigger immediate fight-or-flight defensive reactions in prospects. By adopting a skill-based methodology using pattern interrupts, deliberate tonality, and disarming problem statements, salespeople can trigger curiosity instead of resistance. This approach neutralizes pressure and allows reps to identify operational gaps collaboratively.
Key takeaways
- Cold calling should be treated as a refined skills game rather than a brute-force numbers game.
- Traditional pitch intros trigger the prospect's reptilian brain into a defensive fight-or-flight reaction.
- Using a pattern interrupt, such as mentioning you are holding a relevant document or advertisement, prevents immediate hang-ups.
- Combining a familiar tone with a slightly confused tone triggers natural human curiosity and prompts prospects to help.
- Disarming phrases like 'I'm not even sure if it makes sense for us to talk' dramatically lower prospect resistance.
- Focusing on the person 'responsible' for solving hidden operational gaps makes it difficult for prospects to dismiss the call.
- Phrasing questions to invite a 'no' (e.g., 'Would you be opposed to...?') provides psychological safety and leads to better engagement.
Topics covered
- The Failure of the Numbers Game
- Explains why relying on sheer call volume with outdated 1950s-era scripts triggers knee-jerk defensive objections like 'not interested' and 'we already have someone for that.'
- Strategic Tonality and Pattern Interrupts
- Details how using familiar pacing, physical props like shuffling paper, and an authentic confused tone disrupts the prospect's expectations of a typical sales pitch.
- The Disarming Problem Statement Framework
- Outlines the structure of an effective opening: disarming early assumptions, identifying responsible parties, and highlighting neutral, potential hidden gaps and their business consequences.
- Industry-Specific Scripting Examples
- Demonstrates practical applications of the framework across varied industries, including healthcare AI software, distressed real estate investing, and driver recruitment.
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do you know why so many salespeople suck
at cold calling and say it's dead
because they're using what we call the
numbers game strategy come over here I'm
going to show you exactly why and
exactly how to get much better at cold
calling than you are right now here's
the numbers game strategy right you
always hear that in cold call just got
to call the numbers just get more Nos
and you'll eventually get a yes imagine
Steph Curry in the NBA saying basketball
is just a numbers game shoot as many
threes as you can eventually you're
going to hit one out of 30 well Steph
had that mindset he would have never
made it on his varsity basketball team
let alone be an NBA Hall of Famer Steph
knows it's a Skills game so I'm going to
show you skills but I'm going to first
show you why you're having problems all
right now most salese use some type of
cold calling approach that sounds like
this or some type of offshoot of this
it's one or two things hi is this John
hey John it's Jeremy Miller with XYZ
company listen the reason why I'm
calling you is and then you go over why
you're calling now what do n
99% of prospects do at that point oh uh
yeah I really appreciate it but we're
not interested uh we already have
somebody for that oh oh now we're good I
I appreciate it click okay you're
triggering fighter flat mode and I'm
going to show you why that happens now
the second way some people have been
told how to cold call something like
this some form like this this works a
little bit better than this old school
approach it's been around since like the
1950s okay but this works a little bit
better but still didn't play the number
game hi is John there John hey it's
James Miller now hey full disclosure
this is a sales call it's a cold call uh
if I could just go over a few things
that we're doing you know within one or
two minutes and then you can tell me if
you're interested if you're not I'll
just hang up fair enough now that works
a little bit better but a lot of
prospects most of them will still say
hey not interested we already have
somebody for that right after you get to
that next point or they might say yeah
fair enough and then after about 30 more
seconds like oh not interested we're
already good we already have somebody
for that so this doesn't work that well
either okay now why do those two
techniques not work because you are
triggering especially with your tonality
look I know it's it's not your fault
okay you you were trained how to cold
call that way not your fault but it is
your what it is your problem okay and
that's what I'm going to help you fix
here so what you're triggering is called
Fireflight mode so anytime the prospect
says quickly not interested we're good
we already have somebody for that that
is a knee-jerk reaction based on
defensive mechanisms in the brain so as
a society because we're already always
marketed to and sold to all the time we
have built up defensive mechanisms in
our survival part of the brain most
people call that your reptilian part of
your brain or other other names out
there okay so anytime you sound like a
salesperson so if your tone is monotone
like a telemarketer reading from a
script or you're way too excited I don't
mean be boring there's a middle ground
like an expert you're right in the
middle you're triggering those defensive
mechanisms where you literally sound
like every salesperson that's ever cold
called them ever ever knocked on their
door ever called them on the phone ever
tried to sell them anything you sound
like them so they instantly try to get
rid of you okay that's because like I
said your tone makes you sound like
everybody else and then they throw out
objections okay now there's a lot more I
could go into there but I'm going to
save that for another training all right
now here's the skills game
approach I want to trigger
curiosity in the prospect's mind which
causes them to want engage I wanted to
use what we call a pattern interrupt now
for every industry we train this we
train 161 different Industries and all
the subcategories of all those
Industries which would include your
industry watching me here according to
Forbes Magazine there's quite literally
only 163 Industries on the planet and
there's subcategories of each one we are
in all of this we only two industries we
don't like salt Mining and something
else that nobody even knows what is okay
so I want to have a pattern interrupt I
want to interrupt their patterns because
if I'm like hi my name is I'm with XYZ
company the reason why I called is
that's the pattern they're already used
to they're already used to that script
they know what that is instantly they're
triggered when I pen interrupt I'm going
to show you three or four different
industry specific examples in the
formula to do it for your industry I
throw them off they don't their brain
doesn't know what's going on so it
automat aut atically causes them to be
curious it causes curiosity it triggers
curiosity in their mind that's what you
probably want and I also want to use
right when I co- call what we call a
familiar tone where they feel like they
already know you okay you ever get a
call from somebody like hey John it's
it's Amy Amy Smith how are you doing and
you're like I'm I'm doing good how are
you and you just go with it for the
first 30 45 seconds trying to figure out
like who's Amy Smith who's Amy Smith I
did did I go on a date with her did I go
to networking event with her maybe she's
at my church like you don't know but
they sound so familiar because their
tone that you sound it be it would be
too rude for you to say who is this you
just wouldn't do it because your tone is
a familiar tone so I'm going to show you
some examples on how to use a familiar
tone with what you sell and then I'm
also going to show you how to use what
we call a confused tone now let me
specify I don't mean confused tone like
you're 96 years old and you have
dementia and you're confused like you
don't know what's going on or like
you're in your presentation like oh I
don't know how it works that's not what
I mean a confused tone is like when you
walk into some like I I'm not sure I
understand like where should I actually
be going over here and people come to
your rescue because you sound confused
like you need a little bit of help so
I'm going to show you in certain context
at the beginning really only the
beginning of a coold call how to use a
confused tone to trigger more curiosity
I bet you're curious about what the h
dou l i mean by this right now if you
are now what I want you to do is comment
in the comment section right now your
biggest struggles with C call and so
while you're watching this video go down
to the comments and make a comment about
your biggest struggles right now when
you C call because I'm going to read
those after to make some more training
content around that to help you okay now
this is a generic example of we what we
call an any PQ problem statement instead
of focusing on the reason why I'm
calling you is and going into your
solution ution and all the benefits and
features which goes in one year out the
other prospects I want to focus on one
or two problems that I know anybody that
answers that phone depending on the
industry I'm calling or the company
would know about because it triggers
curiosity okay now what I'm also going
to do is in every industry and like I
said we train out of the 163 Industries
on the planet in subcategories we're in
161 of those I'm going to go out and
Limb and say that we already train your
industry and in every industry that Cole
calls we have developed what we call
pattern erupts by having them say
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