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The REAL Reason Most People SUCK at Cold Calling...

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What this video covers

Cold calling frequently fails because traditional pitch-heavy scripts trigger immediate fight-or-flight defensive reactions in prospects. By adopting a skill-based methodology using pattern interrupts, deliberate tonality, and disarming problem statements, salespeople can trigger curiosity instead of resistance. This approach neutralizes pressure and allows reps to identify operational gaps collaboratively.

Key takeaways

  • Cold calling should be treated as a refined skills game rather than a brute-force numbers game.
  • Traditional pitch intros trigger the prospect's reptilian brain into a defensive fight-or-flight reaction.
  • Using a pattern interrupt, such as mentioning you are holding a relevant document or advertisement, prevents immediate hang-ups.
  • Combining a familiar tone with a slightly confused tone triggers natural human curiosity and prompts prospects to help.
  • Disarming phrases like 'I'm not even sure if it makes sense for us to talk' dramatically lower prospect resistance.
  • Focusing on the person 'responsible' for solving hidden operational gaps makes it difficult for prospects to dismiss the call.
  • Phrasing questions to invite a 'no' (e.g., 'Would you be opposed to...?') provides psychological safety and leads to better engagement.

Topics covered

The Failure of the Numbers Game
Explains why relying on sheer call volume with outdated 1950s-era scripts triggers knee-jerk defensive objections like 'not interested' and 'we already have someone for that.'
Strategic Tonality and Pattern Interrupts
Details how using familiar pacing, physical props like shuffling paper, and an authentic confused tone disrupts the prospect's expectations of a typical sales pitch.
The Disarming Problem Statement Framework
Outlines the structure of an effective opening: disarming early assumptions, identifying responsible parties, and highlighting neutral, potential hidden gaps and their business consequences.
Industry-Specific Scripting Examples
Demonstrates practical applications of the framework across varied industries, including healthcare AI software, distressed real estate investing, and driver recruitment.

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do you know why so many salespeople suck

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at cold calling and say it's dead

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because they're using what we call the

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numbers game strategy come over here I'm

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going to show you exactly why and

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exactly how to get much better at cold

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calling than you are right now here's

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the numbers game strategy right you

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always hear that in cold call just got

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to call the numbers just get more Nos

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and you'll eventually get a yes imagine

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Steph Curry in the NBA saying basketball

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is just a numbers game shoot as many

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threes as you can eventually you're

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going to hit one out of 30 well Steph

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had that mindset he would have never

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made it on his varsity basketball team

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let alone be an NBA Hall of Famer Steph

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knows it's a Skills game so I'm going to

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show you skills but I'm going to first

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show you why you're having problems all

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right now most salese use some type of

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cold calling approach that sounds like

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this or some type of offshoot of this

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it's one or two things hi is this John

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hey John it's Jeremy Miller with XYZ

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company listen the reason why I'm

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calling you is and then you go over why

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you're calling now what do n

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99% of prospects do at that point oh uh

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yeah I really appreciate it but we're

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not interested uh we already have

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somebody for that oh oh now we're good I

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I appreciate it click okay you're

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triggering fighter flat mode and I'm

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going to show you why that happens now

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the second way some people have been

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told how to cold call something like

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this some form like this this works a

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little bit better than this old school

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approach it's been around since like the

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1950s okay but this works a little bit

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better but still didn't play the number

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game hi is John there John hey it's

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James Miller now hey full disclosure

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this is a sales call it's a cold call uh

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if I could just go over a few things

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that we're doing you know within one or

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two minutes and then you can tell me if

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you're interested if you're not I'll

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just hang up fair enough now that works

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a little bit better but a lot of

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prospects most of them will still say

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hey not interested we already have

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somebody for that right after you get to

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that next point or they might say yeah

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fair enough and then after about 30 more

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seconds like oh not interested we're

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already good we already have somebody

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for that so this doesn't work that well

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either okay now why do those two

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techniques not work because you are

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triggering especially with your tonality

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look I know it's it's not your fault

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okay you you were trained how to cold

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call that way not your fault but it is

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your what it is your problem okay and

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that's what I'm going to help you fix

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here so what you're triggering is called

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Fireflight mode so anytime the prospect

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says quickly not interested we're good

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we already have somebody for that that

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is a knee-jerk reaction based on

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defensive mechanisms in the brain so as

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a society because we're already always

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marketed to and sold to all the time we

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have built up defensive mechanisms in

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our survival part of the brain most

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people call that your reptilian part of

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your brain or other other names out

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there okay so anytime you sound like a

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salesperson so if your tone is monotone

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like a telemarketer reading from a

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script or you're way too excited I don't

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mean be boring there's a middle ground

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like an expert you're right in the

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middle you're triggering those defensive

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mechanisms where you literally sound

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like every salesperson that's ever cold

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called them ever ever knocked on their

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door ever called them on the phone ever

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tried to sell them anything you sound

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like them so they instantly try to get

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rid of you okay that's because like I

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said your tone makes you sound like

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everybody else and then they throw out

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objections okay now there's a lot more I

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could go into there but I'm going to

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save that for another training all right

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now here's the skills game

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approach I want to trigger

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curiosity in the prospect's mind which

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causes them to want engage I wanted to

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use what we call a pattern interrupt now

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for every industry we train this we

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train 161 different Industries and all

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the subcategories of all those

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Industries which would include your

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industry watching me here according to

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Forbes Magazine there's quite literally

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only 163 Industries on the planet and

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there's subcategories of each one we are

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in all of this we only two industries we

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don't like salt Mining and something

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else that nobody even knows what is okay

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so I want to have a pattern interrupt I

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want to interrupt their patterns because

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if I'm like hi my name is I'm with XYZ

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company the reason why I called is

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that's the pattern they're already used

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to they're already used to that script

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they know what that is instantly they're

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triggered when I pen interrupt I'm going

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to show you three or four different

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industry specific examples in the

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formula to do it for your industry I

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throw them off they don't their brain

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doesn't know what's going on so it

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automat aut atically causes them to be

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curious it causes curiosity it triggers

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curiosity in their mind that's what you

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probably want and I also want to use

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right when I co- call what we call a

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familiar tone where they feel like they

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already know you okay you ever get a

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call from somebody like hey John it's

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it's Amy Amy Smith how are you doing and

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you're like I'm I'm doing good how are

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you and you just go with it for the

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first 30 45 seconds trying to figure out

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like who's Amy Smith who's Amy Smith I

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did did I go on a date with her did I go

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to networking event with her maybe she's

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at my church like you don't know but

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they sound so familiar because their

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tone that you sound it be it would be

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too rude for you to say who is this you

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just wouldn't do it because your tone is

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a familiar tone so I'm going to show you

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some examples on how to use a familiar

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tone with what you sell and then I'm

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also going to show you how to use what

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we call a confused tone now let me

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specify I don't mean confused tone like

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you're 96 years old and you have

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dementia and you're confused like you

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don't know what's going on or like

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you're in your presentation like oh I

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don't know how it works that's not what

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I mean a confused tone is like when you

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walk into some like I I'm not sure I

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understand like where should I actually

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be going over here and people come to

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your rescue because you sound confused

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like you need a little bit of help so

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I'm going to show you in certain context

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at the beginning really only the

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beginning of a coold call how to use a

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confused tone to trigger more curiosity

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I bet you're curious about what the h

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dou l i mean by this right now if you

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are now what I want you to do is comment

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in the comment section right now your

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biggest struggles with C call and so

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while you're watching this video go down

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to the comments and make a comment about

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your biggest struggles right now when

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you C call because I'm going to read

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those after to make some more training

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content around that to help you okay now

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this is a generic example of we what we

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call an any PQ problem statement instead

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of focusing on the reason why I'm

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calling you is and going into your

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solution ution and all the benefits and

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features which goes in one year out the

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other prospects I want to focus on one

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or two problems that I know anybody that

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answers that phone depending on the

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industry I'm calling or the company

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would know about because it triggers

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curiosity okay now what I'm also going

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to do is in every industry and like I

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said we train out of the 163 Industries

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on the planet in subcategories we're in

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161 of those I'm going to go out and

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Limb and say that we already train your

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industry and in every industry that Cole

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calls we have developed what we call

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pattern erupts by having them say

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