what sienna mae did to me

i've sat down many times trying to do

this it's been very hard i want to start

off by saying i just want to say thank

you guys so much for your support and

for giving me time i wanted to share

what i went through with sienna and my

side of the story this all started when

my friend came out with a tweet

because he was worried about me he

actually witnessed a bunch of times what

sienna did to me after mason's tweet

their family reached out to our family

told mason to take down his tweet and he

did we wanted to settle it offline our

families and our lawyers got together my

statement was

confirming the tweet it was the truth

and basically that we're handling

offline now sienna posted her own

version of the statement and said she

was gonna handle it offline after that

she basically posted eight minute video

invaliding my feelings saying untrue

stuff about me about my friend and my

brother

i think the most hurtful thing is that

what she did to me she said it was

untrue that hurt a lot after that video

another one of my friends came out with

the video

when i was at a party like passed out on

the couch when they told me about what

happened uh they said they pulled her

off of me

my twin a friend and another friend got

an argument with sienna saying you can't

do that jack doesn't like you like that

that night she posted a 15 part

aggressive video

gaslighting

everything about

what happened how much she loved me and

that i was using her for clout which was

all lies it was typical gaslighting to a

victim is

why didn't you stop hanging out with me

why didn't you tell me in the first

place someone who explained it perfectly

is this guy on tick-tock he posted a

video and it was explained like

he explained like

he explained everything perfectly

there's a trauma that you have to

process and sometimes you have to

process it alone because an entire

society is against you as a man c and

i've watched the video exactly of what

happened the video evidence that i've

seen over and over and over again and

you say his hand moves his hand moves

because it falls off of his friend's

back

your hand is on his crotch it is not on

his upper thigh he was unconscious

you did a bad thing and i know you're

trying to write it in every way you can

because of the account that you have and

the following that you have in the life

that you're currently living but i need

you to just do us all a favor and admit

what you did was wrong

i don't care how touchy feel your

relationship was prior to or after that

moment but just know that he did not

speak up and he did not act any

different because he knew a society

would be against him as it is and now

that everybody's seen the truth you just

attacked in a way that is supposed to be

an apology or righting the wrong what

you're doing is manipulating right now

any sane person knows that they wouldn't

have to go on multiple platforms to post

something like this and they wouldn't be

getting angry in the videos that are

supposed to be addressing and

apologizing i know you've got a lot to

lose i know you've got a lot to live for

but here's the truth you getting worked

up because people are trying to get the

truth out of you does not make it right

to get shitty in a video just know that

the truth will prevail and your

lies will come out

i think his video was one of the reasons

why i was um

okay and was able to

not

come out with like an aggressive

statement like her i was able just to

i knew the truth i knew what she did to

me

sienna i met four years ago in high

school she was dating my good friend

um and basically it did not turn out

well she cheated

on him two times and it kind of like

created this whole problem in her friend

group i'm

the type of guy that's all for like

second chances of people

and i i always try to see the good in

people i was in the hype house i was

going back and forth from la and siena

had just gone viral on

a couple videos he

reached out to me and

basically asked if i want to do an

interview with her in la and i said of

course we hung out reconnected

i showed her

around the hype house introduced her to

all my friends and

i was happy for her

and we just had fun hanging out

i just want to clarify that we both knew

that we were just friends

she was

singing and talking to other guys in la

all the time

and i

i just thought of her as a good friend

we were making videos we were making

dance trends we had fun

it was just strictly friends and we both

knew that at this point nothing

inappropriate was happening between us

we were just friends everything was fine

this next part of the video is very

difficult for me to talk about i've been

wanting to talk about it for a long time

so the first incident where sienna

crossed boundaries it was after filming

we went into the room

um i was just chilling on my phone on

the bed and she got

naked like completely naked nothing on

and straddled me when i was

literally just chilling on the bed but i

didn't know what to do in like the

situation because it was like random and

weird

quickly told her she gonna get off we're

just friends

stop they're trying to make out with me

they're like just doing a bunch of

things to me

and

i was i kept on saying sienna stop get

off i like i didn't want to like

be like aggressive i don't want to hurt

her you know

so i i pulled her off of me

and it took like a couple tries because

i don't want to be like too rough

and

i went out of the room and

that was like the end of it the next

morning

where she was like

i'm so sorry

for doing that that was i don't know

what went through my head i had to

clarify again that i didn't like her

that way we were just friends

she said sorry that was it after that

these type of things kept happening she

would do something and i would forgive

her and she said it wouldn't happen

again and we would go on making fun

videos after all those type of things

kept on happening

the hawaii incident happened where

i was passed out unconscious almost like

the whole night she got on top of me

took advantage of me groped me i'm so

glad they pulled her off of me

and

honestly i'm glad that they have

evidence after shannon found out about

the video she said sorry she said if

this got out she would be done

that it's horrible and she's working on

boundaries

and she was seeking therapy

and

shortly after there was a party i was

taking pictures with a couple other

girls we took a picture sienna came in

started screaming at me got mad at the

girls

told me to come to a room to talk to me

she started screaming at me

and i was like

you know

there's no reason for you to be mad when

you're getting with other guys in la i

can't just take a simple picture

with a couple girls that's when she

pulled me in

and grabbed me and tried to make out

with me

and i got pissed and

told her to leave i want to stay at the

party and she kinda had already been

yelling at

every single person in the party so two

friends wanted to take her home and

while the car was moving she jumped out

of the car

rolled and said i have to get back to

jack so i ran back to the house and i

was like hiding from her

and i was just waiting for her parents

to finally pick her up looking back now

i don't know why i stayed friends with

her or stayed around her i truly thought

she was gonna change for some reason i

feel like she she'd say she had so much

love for me and she truly cared for me

and then the next night she would do

something like that she knew i had those

boundaries

so when i was at my most like vulnerable

state

like when i was arguing getting getting

heated or when i was

asleep or passed out that's when she

would take advantage of me

because she knew i was at my most

vulnerable state when i'm awake i hated

it i hated that touch i hated

any intimacy with her because i knew

we're just friends i didn't want that

from her

and especially with like the past couple

things she did

i

wouldn't

i didn't want nothing i didn't want

anything to do with that over the next

couple of months i was stuck in this

toxic cycle i was stuck with her crying

to all my friends saying that i didn't

like her back and why don't i like her

back and

she would get mad at me

for not caring about her as much as she

she cared about for me

but she'd also be

doing these things to me would go see

other guys in la

so it was like couldn't win at all i

couldn't get out of this she would

constantly come to my house remember my

door codes it like it got to the point

where i had to like start screaming at

her so i get out of my house because i

was so sick of her just like

breaking into my house i would wake up

and see her car just

sitting outside at like two in the

morning she would break into my house

and when i was sound asleep she'd come

to my room

and i'd wake up to her hand and my pants

and it wasn't like the only time it

happened too i was so like used to it i

was so used to it that

it

i don't know it's

it was just like normal

for me that i like i didn't think there

was such like a problem at all like part

of me wants to blame myself for being

nice and sticking around after so many

so many times

but now i realized that i was stuck in

this like manipulative cycle of

her acting like she extremely cared

about me and then

that night she would do stuff to me and

it was just so normal for me i got used

to it which sucks i feel like no one

should have to go through

it's re i almost felt like i owed owed

it to her for some reason i don't know

why like i felt like

she had this like control like this

power of over me

it was all i don't know i was like i was

like stuck

um

and i feel like

you should never have to like worry

about like falling to sleep and waking

up

to

one of your good friends like touching

you know

i was like terrified for some reason

which she shouldn't be from like a

a person

one night she started ripping off my

clothes touching my crotch area

trying to make out with me

i mean it was just like same old same

old like i'd say sienna stop sienna stop

go back to the couch she can't stop

so i like locked the door she was trying

to get in and i literally just

slept on the floor and she finally went

to bed it's like very awkward the next

morning

and she'll say sorry and i'm like sienna

this

this happens so many times like

you do not respect boundaries you just

oh my god

so my dad was born and raised in hawaii

so we plan a trip to the beach house

my dad grew up on in hawaii

and siena's family basically

planned the same trip on the same dates

they

left a couple days before us and we were

supposed to leave on a certain date

but i didn't want to leave because

she already left to go back home and i

did not want to be at home with her

because i know she'd find a way

to

start hanging out with me again so my

mom got a text from sienna's mom

saying that sienna is on a plane taxi

right now hearing that she was coming

back it was like

this cycle is never gonna end

it's like it's gonna be like this

forever that's like that's what it felt

like

she was always gonna make her way

back towards me she wasn't respecting my

space at all she knew i wanted my space

there's another time i went to hawaii

with a couple friends for like my trip

and she

kind of found a way

to get on that trip

and

we went to a party one night

she got mad that i was talking to some

girl and she took me into the bathroom

to talk to me

saying that she wanted to leave

she was blocking the door so like i

couldn't just like throw out of the way

all i had was stops you know don't do

that if i come out she like scream at me

in front of everyone and think that i

did something

i mean just i feel like no one believes

a male especially like that type of

situation yeah she was on the counter

and

wrapped her legs around me and started

like let me out of the bathroom

yeah just weird stuff that night we went

home made sure we had like different

rooms to stay in and i got in the shower

and

she picked the lock of my door i made

sure to lock the doors but she picked

the lock

and

walked in

i was in the shower

all i heard was just like the door

opening and that's when i was just done

i screamed at her

told her to get out

she started crying she went and slept in

my bed

and i

went to my friend's trundle bed that was

like upstairs

uh and that's how like the night ended

so now we're caught up to when

everything went public when mason posted

his tweet

since everything was brought to social

media multiple guys came out to me and

said that sienna did similar things to

them

and

basically i'll show the text right now

i asked all them for permission to post

crossed out all their names

we don't want her to hurt anybody else

don't want anyone to go through that

experience at the time it feels

humiliating

you feel like

you have no power you have

no

no control on the situation you just you

feel

it

just it's horrible i just want to start

by saying that

i didn't stay silent in

this situation over these last couple

months

i i talked to my friends my family

my parents

counselors

and i was able to process everything

i don't think i'll ever be the same

person i was

before sienna it it sucks and there's

going to be people that

try to take advantage you and

get you at your most vulnerable state

and

and that's

that's not fair it's not fair at all and

it's a lot of time it's usually like the

nice

the nice people that like

let people walk all over them and that

was me like i let everyone just walk all

over me

no matter what like i would do anything

for anyone

and i think that's one of the things she

gave me

was i learned

how to be more bold and

um

finally say no and

know that it was right to speak out

i feel like

people don't know what you go through

until you're in it and

it's definitely like humiliating weird

awkward

i want to be that person

that says it's okay

it's okay to speak out you're not gonna

be known for that

it's just a little obstacle you have to

get through this

is something you have to get through and

um

it sucks but i feel like in my situation

like i've just learned you learn from it

i've learned so much from

everything i'm like

i've grown so much as a person it's

insane and

as of sienna i don't know if she'll ever

be sorry i don't know

if she'll ever learn from what she did

or she'll ever admit to what she did

um

but

i just don't want her to do this to

other people if you've been through a

similar situation as me

i encourage you just to speak out speak

out to anyone

and

trust me it it helps so much

and i just wanted to say thank you so

much

for listening to me and letting me take

time and breathe and process everything

and i'm

i'm glad i'm finally ready to

tell the world my story

um

if you're watching right now and you've

been through

a situation like mine

i just wanted to say your feelings are

valid

your feelings are valid your opinion is

valid

believe you and

i want you to know that you can talk to

someone you can talk to anyone you can

talk to me

um

but

that's how i want to end off

i love you guys