The #1 Trait Women Look For

Women are attracted, generally speaking,

the research shows, to men, based on

three reasons. The third is kindness.

They don't want someone who's going to

be a good person. They're impressed by

men who are good to their parents and

kind and go out of their way to help

people, and there's no reciprocal

expectation. The second is intelligence,

because the smarter you are, the more

likely you are to make good decisions

and protect your family's offspring. And

by the way, the fastest way to

communicate intelligence is humor. I've

always said, if you can make a woman

laugh, you can kiss her. Well, and then

the most important thing though to women

and people don't like to admit this is

the man's ability to signal future

resources. It's not even he has to be

rich now, but he has to have his act

together such that he looks like he will

be a decent provider. And the number of

people, the number of men we're

producing that qualify in this category

is shrinking.