Ambivalent Relationships Are Energy Vampires | Vanessa Van Edwards #shorts #short #shortvideo

the relationships that are the most

toxic are not the toxic relationships

they're actually the ambivalent

relationships it's ambivalence that

drains us the most it's like an app

running in the background it's draining

you without even realizing it ambivalent

tasks and ambivalent relationships are

the same highly effective people are

very good at not having anything

ambivalent ambivalent means um you're

not sure if you love it or hate it you

could take it or leave it you feel

neutral often when you do it that is

actually more dangerous I'll give you an

example that happens the most with

people ambivalent relationship struct

the hardest you might have that friend

where you see them on your calendar

you're like oh yeah should I cancel I'm

so

tired or I'm not really looking forward

to it but we've been friends forever

it's been on the calendar for a long

time and you hang out with them and you

wonder is this

fun or as my my good friend says is this

fun or am I just fun right like

sometimes really fun people can mask

they're having fun actually they're just

fun but they're not actually having any

fun so you're wondering am I having fun

or are they supporting me wait was that

passive

aggressive why do I feel so tired when

you leave this friend and you think I

should have just stayed home and watched

Netflix when you leave and you can't

remember anything you talked about when

you leave and you question do they

really like me did I learn learn

anything did I get asked good

questions that is the ambivalent

relationship