Maybe You’re the Problem in Your Relationship

I noticed when I was young that three of

my relationships ended the same way

those were pretty different women hm

that was probably me cuz like what's the

probability that three women who are

quite different were going to react the

same way that's pretty much zero it was

definitely me and it was me a huge part

of what you ask yourself in a marriage

is was this me and the answer to that

almost always is well at least somewhat

when I'm fighting with Tammy you know I

want to be convinced just like everybody

else finally this is a time where I'm

100% right and she's wrong cuz that

would be real convenient but I've

learned to go away and think well yeah

probably I'm only like 99% perfect and

like 1% of me probably made a mistake of

some sort when I find out what it is I

think oh yeah it's probably more like

70% me not 1% and then I can go tell her

that and that usually works and

generally the right place to look for

the Devil is in your own heart