The Ugly Truth About People Who Gossip | Mel Robbins #Shorts

here's the other thing you need to

understand about gossiping if they're

doing it with you they'll do it about

you when you're not there people gossip

as a way to bond with other people it's

called triangulation narcissists do this

in particular by talking about other

people in a derogatory way the people

that are gossiping are trying to build a

bond with you that means the second

you're not there they will trash you in

order to build a bond with other people

and when you really get that as a truth

because it is a truth that people who

gossip with you gossip about

you that will change how you look at all

your relationships and when you become

the kind of person that makes it a rule

to not gossip about people you will

surround yourself with other people who

don't gossip about you and that is a

powerful change in your

life