What Makes For a Great Seducer? I Robert Greene

what makes for a great Seducer is very

simple you are outer directed so when

you meet somebody for the first time or

you're on a date you're not having that

internal monologue going does she like

me or does he like me might dress well

am I saying stupid things what can I do

to impress them no you turn it off and

you're out or directed and you're

listening to them and you're entering

their spirit and you're hearing them say

things that give you idea of what

they're missing in life of what they

want of what their needs are of what

makes them an individual you're

absorbing it you're entering into their

spirit and then you can reflect it back

to them you can give them gifts you can

take them to places that show that

you're attentive to them because if you

look at how we are in our day-to-day

life normally people never pay us

attention they're always so

self-absorbed they're never thinking

about us the times where you get the

sense that people are actually

interested in who you are as an

individual is pretty rare if you give

that feeling to someone it's incredibly

powerful because we all want to be

validated we all want to be recognized