Why You Are Attracted to the WRONG People I Robert Greene

believe it or not some of those early

dysfunctional relationships with your

parents are charged with this kind of

sexual energy and so you'll find

yourself attracted to the very man or

woman who's going to hurt you whereas

the man or woman who is good for you

there's no kind of sexual charge you are

actually more attracted to the person

that has these damaged qualities why is

that because you get to relive some of

those early traumas and so the problem

that will happen that the person who is

good for you is actually caring that

will mesh with you that physical charge

maybe isn't as strong and that's a

problem right because you want to have

that element but you need to be aware of

this you need to be aware of the fact

that some of the people that you're most

attracted to you're not attracted to

just because of their sexy body or

whatever it is there's also some kind of

issues you haven't worked out from your

Early Childhood that are at play in that

relationship and that are going to cause

you a lot of pain