Why Men Don't Feel Attractive

why men are often times not attractive

one is that we're not conditioned to it

I think a second thing that tends to

happen with men is that people don't

complement men's appearances very often

I grew up in a a time where any kind of

positive affection or even comment in

the Physical Realm about another dude

labeled one as homosexual so I grew up

in a highly homophobic environment

heaven forbid you say that a Dude Looks

attractive like oh my God that means

that you're gay oh my God we can't have

that the other thing that tends to

happen is that men don't get compliments

so we don't feel attractive and if we

never get positive reinforcement we're

not going to go out of our way to look

attractive and part of the reason that

we never get compliments it's not just

women's fault or other men's fault it's

because frequently we as men get

confused when someone compliments us

this person is complimenting my

appearance when I complement someone's

appearance that means that I'm attracted

to them and want to sleep with them so

if they are complimenting my appearance

that means that they must want to sleep

with me