Why Toxic People Are Making Life Harder Than It Should Be | Vanessa Van Edwards #shorts #shortvideo
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and this is why toxic people are so
challenging because toxic people put us
out of Integrity toxic people Force us
to use warm cues where we don't feel
like it now we can do it what do you
mean we got to be nice to them or
something yeah so like if you have a
toxic person and this is the thorn and
and I think our work is I want everyone
to be their best selves I want them to
show up as their warmest most confident
self but what if you have a toxic person
how do you do that authentically and
this is what's so hard about toxic
people you have a colleague or cooworker
or family member yeah that you don't
like right and you have to break out the
fake warmth cues oh hi how are you right
and so what do we do we fake smile right
so oh it's so good to see you right look
like it right or we say oh yeah so how
oh that sounds good
congratulations right now your La roots
are coming back to you and right that's
why talk to people challenge us is
because they come into our lives we know
we're supposed to be warm and so we try
to force that warm sound and it comes
out sort of forc and it makes us feel
bad and then we're trying to
overcompensate for it and so you know
what the antidote here is not learning
more fake warmth cues it's it's time to
get rid of toxic people
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