Where did all my friends go? Watch this | Mel Robbins #Shorts

I thought by the time I was 54 years old

my life would be a party there would be

barbecues every weekend we'd be going on

cruises and bike trips with friends I'd

have all kinds of down time to hang out

with my buddies what the hell has

happened this is how I would describe

adult friendship at least for Mel

Robbins and I'm sure you can relate to

this bumping into people randomly and

being like Oh my God it's so great to

see you we should get together and then

six months go by I think my circle has

gotten so small it's basically become a

DOT here's the thing I keep reminding

myself and I want to put this pin in it

too for you you ready your friends and

you actually mean it when you say we

should get together but there's

something that's standing in the way of

us actually doing it and I'm going to

tell you what it is it's these five damn

lies these lies that keep you feeling

lonely and isolated these lies that make

you feel that adult friendship is hard

lie number one that you're telling

yourself