"DON'T! Be Shocked When This Happens" #love#marriage#women#relationship#quotes#lifelessons#advice#yt

If you're always negative, don't be

shocked when he finds someone who's not.

I'm going to say something that's going

to piss a lot of women off, but I don't

care because it's true. We have become

so negative as women. [music] Everything

is a problem. Everything is something to

complain about. Your job sucks. Your

body's not good enough. The weather's

bad. Traffic's annoying. He didn't text

you fast enough. And then you wonder why

he seems distant. Why he's not as

excited to come home. Because [music]

negativity is draining. It's not

attractive. It's not fun to be around.

And I'm not saying you [music] can't

have bad days or real problems,

>> but there's a difference between venting

and being a constant dark cloud. Your

man doesn't need another problem in his

life. He's already dealing [music] with

enough. What he needs is someone who

brings light, not more darkness. So, if

you're wondering why things feel [music]

off in your relationship,

ask yourself, "Am I the kind of energy

he [music] wants to come home