What Happens When You're Starved Of Kindness

if you're a dude and a woman is kind to

you treat them like a human not like a

romantic partner right so if romance is

there it'll float to the service

eventually or you'll realize it years

later because you were oblivious fair

enough that's a good price to pay in my

book second thing is recognize that not

all kindness is indicative of lust

that's how it is third thing we should

respect boundaries so let's say you're

like a gamer on the internet and you are

playing a a video game where there's

voice coms and there is a girl on your

team obviously don't be toxic to them

but secondly don't be overly nice to

them don't friend them afterward don't

DM them all the time they're just like

any other gamer treat them like any

other gamer don't give them special

treatment don't stay attached to them

now this is what's really tricky is when

someone who is starved for kindness

receives kindness from another human

being there's a tendency to latch on

because we as human beings our minds

require connection right it's something

that we need for survival so when

someone offers us connection just like

hunger or thirst we latch on to them