BE A MAN

the man amongst you please my young

brothers

please don't fall for the FNA of the

street

man this deed Will Make A Man Out Of You

the street will only make a thug out of

you every single

Manel in Arabic every man is a

m but not every male is a man and

there's a very big difference between

the

two he said theel amongst you the man

amongst you is the one who when a m when

a Calamity

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happens he can control his anger and his

wrath he can control it he's

patient this is the man it's one thing

when the brother says me listen I have

an addiction and I'm trying to deal with

my addiction wall I will appreciate it

look the man knows he has a problem no

but I have an addiction and I mean Deni

about my addiction and I try to use Dean

to justify my

actions so Brothers will be PCH you know

he'll bench press 100 120 Allah what

they're bench pressing he'll bench press

amazing weight and it's recorded and

snapchatted but the same brother cannot

lift a blanket for f

you know my

brothers

AEL is not determined by his ability to

fight or his physical or this that's not

howel is

determined but For Me Above All Above

All A real man is realistic and down to

earth and

understands that you can't have the pie

and eat it

too have you heard this saying it's an

English saying they say you can't have

the pie and eat it too yeah you can't

have everything

brother and we're trying to have

everything one of the said that the

difference between us and the sahab you

know what the difference between us and

the sahaba was he said they only wanted

jna that's all they

wanted we also want J you see the

difference they only wanted jna

we we also want

jna you see a real man is realistic a

real man is realistic a real man knows

and understands that if I'm going to be

AEL see to be a man like I said it's not

a t it's not something you get to be AEL

these are decisions you have to make

there're sacrifices you have to take and

these are this is a lifestyle

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it's a

lifestyle that you have to

live and a real man and a real reel

understands that if I'm going to be a

man I can't be anything else with it

it's either a man or something else

where am I going with this a real man is

realistic he understands that when I get

married that when I have children that

when I take on a job that when I give my

word when I make a commitment there are

sacrifices that have to be

made you see today we're not men we're

boys we're little boys that are stuck in

big bodies that's what we are my

brothers W he forgive me but if we're

going to be honest here tonight we are

little boys that are stuck in big bodies

we like to think we're men we like to

think we're men but when you go by the

criteria of Allah and his Prophet we're

very far from it and here's here's

exactly what I'm saying about being

realistic

we love the idea of being with a woman

who doesn't like the idea we love

women but no one loves to be

married ah the commitments of being

married the sacrifices of being married

the challenges and the difficulties of

being married is something a real man a

Iselle knows and

understands but we don't we're boys

we love women but no one wants to be

married and understands that in

marriage it's not all rainbows and

lollipops it's

difficulties yeah there's good times no

doubt but there's hardship and that's

why it's half your Dean it's half your

faith we love

kids but no one wants to be a father

your ability to have children doesn't

make you a man your ability to raise

those children your ability to Father

those children that's what makes you a

man

bro we love

money but no one wants

to no one wants to work bro that's why

drug dealing and being a runner is so

appealing to the young boy everyone

loves Allah

but no one wants Dean brother how can

you love

Allah but not have Dean no no no so now

there's this sick culture have you

noticed this culture brother you don't

know what's in my heart my Iman is in my

heart brother my relationship with Allah

is in my so now this idea of the

heart it's very poisonous why because it

comes through brother do you know what's

in the heart no I don't know what's in

the but really his hiding his he's

hiding his hypocrisy with this everyone

claims they love the

prophet but no one wants his

Sunnah we love jna we love

jna but no one wants to

die tell me my brothers is this the

quality of a

man it's not the quality of a

man a man is realistic

a man is

realistic a man is

Honorable you know what this um is

suffering from my

brothers trust me it's not

knowledge is ocean books books apps W he

jump on YouTube knowledge is there it's

abundant what is this umah suffering

from more than

anything the biggest disease the biggest

sickness of the Muslims the the biggest

Calamity in the um do you know what it

really

is there no

men and you know who suffers the most

when there's no

men women and

children when there's no regel who

suffers you know in English they say in

English they say when the cats

away guess who come to

play when there's no reel when there's

no man when the the cats away who comes

to play ah the rats and the

mice no man rats and mice look at our

societies when man comes together the

world comes together but CM by Allah as

long as man is destroyed this world will

always be

destroyed we need to restore men this um

is suffering from a lack of men my

brothers

ask yourself

tonight are you

a or are you a are you a man or you or

my own we ask Allah subhana tala to make

us

men men whom he's pleased with men whom

revive this um