What Attracts You To Others I Robert Greene

understand your own patterns why am I

attracted to this person just simply ask

that's that question what was it about

him or her that attracted me to that

person is there something I'm not

thinking about could I have foreseen

some of the darker side of this person

earlier on yes yes obviously could I

have seen the fact that he could be

someone who could be kind of cold and

abusive yes oftentimes a man who is like

that will will love bomb the woman he'll

overwhelm them with emotion so they get

confused and they're not aware of it

that also is a sign when when a man

overwhelms you in the first two days

with so much attention wow that he's

hiding something dark but don't look at

it as if it's always the other person's

see your own Temptation why you give in

to someone like that why you are

attracted to people like that