This is Why He Stops Providing

Women want men to be in provide mode.

But when we criticize, which is a form

of emasculation,

a man will retract from provide into

protect.

And if it's a direct attack like on your

character, you're just like your father.

You

now he's protecting themselves. And

that's what brings out the worst in men

when they're protecting themselves cuz

it overrides their compelling desire to

protect others.

They're the smallest version of

themselves and they're protecting

themselves and they could shut down,

right? They could withdraw or they could

attack.

And women cause men to attack and then

we think that's who men are. Women cause

men to withdraw and we think, "Oh, you

ghosted me." Right? We have all these

accusations after we've caused