How to Know You're Ready for a Real Relationship

You're ready for a relationship when you

understand that there is no such thing

as the one. The truth is you decide who

the one will be. And when you make that

choice, you're going to have to make it

many, many times throughout your

relationship with them. And my only hope

is that you choose the one who instead

of giving you a bunch of butterflies is

actually very sweet to your nervous

system. I hope you choose the one who

you can navigate conflict with. I hope

you choose the one who is aware of the

patterns that they bring to the

relationship. And I hope you choose the

one who when life gets hard, because it

will, really is in your corner and has

your