Look at People’s Patterns of Behavior I Robert Greene

I always tell people if somebody does

something once to you they do something

that's bad or they're mean or they yell

at you then they go oh I'm sorry I

didn't mean that that isn't me you know

something came over me I want you to

realize that that is never the case it's

always part of a pattern people never

ever do something just once they will do

it again and again and again it reveals

something about them but it also reveals

something about you