Stop Trying To "Fix" Your Insecurities

a lot of people misunderstand this

because they think that fixing an

insecurity is the way to overcome it but

fixing an insecurity is not overcoming

it that is actually feeding into it so

the weirdest thing about overcoming

insecurities is that fixing insecurities

is not overcoming them in fact it just

reinforces it it just makes it go

dormant so this is the difference

between fearlessness and courage very

different things to be courageous is to

overcome your fear to have the fear and

to overcome it to be Fearless is to

remove the fear and then if it returns

you won't have courage right so I can do

something like get drunk to overcome my

fear get some good old social courage I

mean liquid courage and social lubricant

before I go ask someone out on a date

that doesn't getting drunk doesn't

overcome my insecurity it just makes it

temporarily disappear