The TWO surprising reasons why your friends aren’t more supportive | Mel Robbins #Shorts

whenever you try to change your life i

want you to expect two things number one

the people around you your friends your

family your partner they're actually not

gonna like it and they're not gonna be

supportive and there's a reason why this

happens and the reason why it happens is

because as you start to change your

habits you're no longer eating red meat

you're no longer eating gluten you're no

longer drinking yourself into the ground

every single weekend but you're working

on your goals you're no longer sleeping

until 11 you're getting up and you're

going to the gym you are creating a gap

between where you used to be and where

you are now and guess what that gap it

is inspiring to you it is confronting to

your friends and family because the gap

between where you used to be and where

you are now it's highlighting the fact

that your friends and your family

they're kind of stuck they got stuff

they want to work on and it's a lot

easier for them to criticize you or drag

you down than it is for them to look in

the mirror and do the work too so i want

you to expect no support and i want you

to simply ignore it when they criticize

you because that criticism that's about

them that's not about you