How to talk to the emotionally immature | Mel Robbins #Shorts

how do you deal with a narcissistic

personality style there's an initial

mindset you need to have and that is

know when you're in their game it's a

game of either praise or provoke if

you're not filling them with praise then

they will turn to provoke and start an

argument because it gives them the same

amount of satisfaction they Delight in

your anger as much as they Delight in

your praise it is that sense of control

that they have so no first when you are

on the board and you are playing their

game you don't have to play that game

okay you do that by twoo adding as much

distance as you can don't feel like you

need to have this rapid fire text

exchange they text respond the next day

you find ways to distance the emotional

reaction that you could have you also

want to stay neutral and that means you

say very boring things I understand

noted good to know these short little

things that are going to give them

nothing to feed on because if you think

you're going to solve all your problems

and giving them that paragraph of a text

you're kidding yourself because what

they'll do is just pick out one word

from that paragraph and twist it and not

acknowledge anything that you said so

less is always better when it comes to

communicating with those type of

behaviors and tendencies