How Female Bullying Works

so let's talk a little bit about female

bullying and aggression the first thing

is that it is indirect which means it

isn't about doing something it is

actually about the avoidance of doing

something so it is about ignoring

exclusion leaving you out sometimes it

can be a lot of like very communication

based stuff like crossing your arms we

also have studies that show that these

are very communication based attacks and

not even communication towards you

they'll do things like spread hostile

rumors these are all forms of female

aggression girls who do this will often

not engage in disruptive behavior which

is much more common in men who are

bullies or boys who are bullies so since

they don't engage in a directly

disruptive behavior there's not

something that they can be found guilty

of right so if you go to your friend

your friend ofy and you say hey can you

please stop hitting on my boyfriend what

they're going to say is I wasn't hitting

on your boyfriend I was just walking

past them in a bikini if your boyfriend

wants to look that's his problem what's

the matter do you feel not confident in

it do you feel like you're not

attractive enough to keep your boyfriend

this is how they do