Why men LOVE ESCORTS

I want all of those things as well right

but

they're proxies for what men Miss I

think most spiritually and eggs

essentially

yeah I absolutely agree I feel like in

my work when I've worked with men who

have turned to

um prostitution and who have turned to

pornography addiction

um a lot of the time especially when

they turn to prostitution or even just a

gold digger

um they're so hurt when she doesn't like

them back

so they're not paying for sex they're

actually paying for intimacy and I

always tell them you can't buy intimacy

you can't buy it this girl you can buy

her a bag and you can have sex with her

but you're craving connection and that

is something you can't buy and the

reason they're craving connection is

because a they don't know where to find

it and also they're being told if they

do look for connection they're a simp

that word simp gets thrown around so

we've almost shamed men for wanting and

craving connection and I can say in

honestly the men that cheat the men that

turn to pornography the men that turn to

escorts I'm very non-judgmental because

I understand behind every

self-sabotaging Behavior there is a need

that has not been met for a really long

time and for that need to be met they

turn to self-destructive Behavior as a

coping mechanism so um I definitely

think that we've got a crisis of men

seeking intimacy but believing that it's

wrong and the culture and the internet

is also teaching them that it's wrong so

they're secretly craving it and then

secretly finding uh Outsourcing it in

the wrong ways

simping for women is wanting emotional