Is Being Attached A Good Thing? @TheIcedCoffeeHour

is attachment ever good is it ever

healthy to be attached to something it

depends on what your goal is if the goal

is happiness the answer is no if the

goal is worldly success the answer can

be yes you know when I decided to have

kids I was really struggling because I

was like oh my god do I want to be

detached from my kids I had kids and

then I realized the moment that I start

loving my kids is the moment that I like

open myself to a world of hurt because

if things go bad then I'm unhappy and if

things go good then I'm happy and so

then what I kind of did is detach from

that attachment and I sort of said okay

in this life I've chosen to have kids

this is what I've signed up for which

means that one day I could be

heartbroken one day I could be sad one

day I could be mad when I decided to

have children is when I opened myself up

to a world of joy and a world of hurt

and so even in that I have a lot of

Peace because this is what I signed up

for right it could go well it could go

bad the key thing is deciding to roll

the dice with your eyes wide open okay

I'm going to do this and this means that

my life could be screwed or it could be

happy and chances are it's going to be

all of the above