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outside of adult relationships you tend

to be quite put together and you're okay

the moment you start falling in love

your brain starts to work out how and

when this person is going to leave and

assume at some point they're going to

cheat or at some point they're going to

hurt you the moment you get together

with them you launch your investigation

you start to look for evidence that this

person is not right for you but in the

process of looking for that evidence you

start to get preoccupied with them and

you form a bit of an obsession you start

looking for things you start asking

about them you start checking when

they're online or in your desperate

attempt to kind of keep this person or

control this person you almost

self-sabotage Because by the time you do

hear from them you've got all this built

up anger and resentment and accusations

so you end up always fighting

and in that process of trying to love

them and trying to stay connected to

them you actually end up pushing them

away when you're growing up especially

in the early years of infothood what

would have happened is your parents were

inconsistent it led you to believe that

some