The WORST Caleb Hammer Show YET: Episode 1.

is like perpetual victimhood and it's

just not helping anyone because you're

just a spoiled brat there might be some

lucky things maybe you'll get lucky and

say Hawk to and then all a no that's

what I was hoping hey full disclaimer

I'm a financial adviser and my goal is

to maybe start a series of reacting to

some of these Caleb Hammer episodes so

let me know what you think in this video

let me know if you prefer this studio

set or if you remember my Blackboard set

I was thinking about using that as well

but let me know and see what you think

see if I'm adding to this conversation

I open to all of your commentary here we

go reality sucks capitalism is bad

really easy for someone to say that grew

up in a really nice house in one of the

best school districts in Texas who has

the rent paid for that is able to go to

Europe and on a whim with their sister

who's able to do girl math who's able to

be fun employed yeah it's easy to say

that the system's bad when you're doing

that cuz you've never had to work for it

you never got to actually see what

happens when you put in the work and get

benefits and actually have a little bit

of responsibility and actually build

something or do anything you've grew up

in privilege Beyond privilege Beyond

privilege Beyond privilege it's only the

people who speak like you that grew up

in a world where you've never had to do

in a single thing in your life oh boy oh

boy I'm calling this the worst Caleb

Hammer episode yet and I have a feeling

there going to be more but we're going

to call it episode one so let's get

started with breaking down exactly

what's wrong with Grace because we know

that's not a real name and then let's

come up with Solutions so let's get

right into it number one this reality

sucks capitalism is bad aspect and her

saying to herself regularly that I know

I'm delusional I know I need help she

basically suggests that you can't tell

me anything I don't already know the

system's broken and I'm a victim Caleb

says it himself he does a great job he

says she's playing victimhood but why is

is happening it's happening because

she's a classic narcissist I hate to say

it but a narcissist doesn't want to

suggest that any suggestion somebody

else has she hasn't already thought of

processed and then told herself why it's

bad and not for her I know I'm literally

so delusional yeah no I definitely I

definitely need to like start like

paying my own bills like my own you've

never lived in the real world I

haven't I can admit that I need to find

something I like and learn how to

monetize it I'm sorry this conversation

can't help you wait why yeah no I need

to stop using that as like a crutch and

like actually take control of my

finances she doesn't want a job because

she wants something she's passionate

about she just wants to go out to

dinners because her friends with cushy

jobs they get to go out to dinner I

don't know I don't want to feel like I'm

missing out just because I don't have

like some cushy like job like they do

this is another psycholog iCal issue and

it's total narcissism mind you but she's

also stuck in this mentality of well if

somebody else is making money they're a

scam a lot of my like scam fluenza

friends are funemployed what I call them

call scam fluenc okay you say a lot of

fake words why don't we can you speak

English so we can like get through this

please and because I'm not making money

I'm a victim this is really bad and

frankly it's just straight up narcissism

so I understand that I opened up this

video saying I'm a financial adviser but

one of the first things that we do when

we work with financial clients stock

hack.com by the way is we try to

understand what is the person's

personality like I'm not going to tell

somebody who absolutely despises real

estate to get interested in buying a

house just like I'm not going to tell

somebody who despises stocks to consider

investing in the S&P 500 that's stupid

it's just not the personality matches

just don't work well in this case the

last thing you want to start with for

somebody broken like Grace is a budget

savings investment or some kind of well

maybe pay ,000 a month a part of your

rent because that'll help you be more

mature no Grace is mentally broken she

has a lottery mentality she poops on

other people who are successful and

dumps on cushy jobs and quits successful

internships she had because she probably

just sucks she doesn't like waking up

early she wants to wake up late she

wants to be a Pilates wife honestly like

I just want to be like a stay-at-home

Pilates wife she wants to live in a

dream world and Dreamland and if she

ever wants to feel any success in her

life she needs to break all of this down

to the first square of success so what

is the first square of success well it

all starts very simply you need

something that you can provide value in

now you can have a passion for it I

personally have a passion for providing

value on YouTube uh that makes my job

easier but I like providing value

because after I provide value I feel

happiness and success it's not about the

money it's about the feeling of

providing passion is just the I like to

say the salt on the really good steak

really well-cooked delicious steak like

that delicious steak fruits my team

members had while we were in D shout out

to Beast caca in DC by the way not

sponsored but anyway something to think

about here is what could she do where

she would contribute to society okay so

you've got you know a lot of people

would say an attractive blonde girl who

at least has a personality it's a

personality that right now pisses a lot

of people off it makes her feel like an

entitled you know what but she could

actually weaponize this and frankly

sales real estate sales car sales she

can do really well in probably medical

equipment sales or just drug sales like

legal drug sales you know

Pharmaceuticals right I think she'd be

great in that kind of place she says she

doesn't like Tech or Finance yeah I want

to find something that I'm actually

passionate about doing not just like

something boring like Tech your Finance

good get into sales you have to realize

there there are two mindsets that people

usually have there two sort of types of

brains we like to say there's sort of

your uh engineer and then your there's

your salesperson well person person who

likes making money by talking and then

the person who likes making money by not

talking like that's sort of an easy test

and I think she's going to be your

talker uh and then when you actually

start providing value to society you'll

start overcoming the feelings of

Relativity which instead of you pooping

on your friends or your date who brags

about how much money he has yet makes

you split the bill instead of you

feeling entitled that somebody else

should pay for you now you could be the

one who takes the Reigns and you could

do the power move and you could pay the

bill because guess what when you pay the

bill you don't owe anyone anything I

prefer to pay the bills I prefer not to

give any or I should say not to take any

handouts I like giving because the more

I give the less responsible and entitled

I am to anyone else and that's how I

like it to be so I am much happier and

and maybe that's just my own

justification

but I'd rather take the short end of the

stick because it makes me feel like I

won I'm in control and I don't owe

anyone anything and all of a sudden when

you flip that mentality around you

actually become happy in giving and you

start solving this entitlement problem

no you but it's hard when you're raised

in a certain lifestyle I was literally

raised in this neighborhood where

everybody was wealthy everybody had like

Daddy's Money everybody went to like

Pilates to fancy like juice places

everybody did this stuff everybody went

on fancy you're vacations I had a friend

for a private jet I did not have a

private jet growing up oh my gosh you

have my sympathy this is horrible but

literally like it's just like you're

used to something and grow up at a house

with

money that you have now you're never

really going to get rid of this what I

call toxicity of Relativity but it will

like having a a job like this toxicity

of Relativity by the way is when you

constantly compare yourself to other

people you always will like oh they sold

car before I did or they sold the house

that I wanted to sell whatever right

that's always going to happen but that's

just the nature of a competitive person

that doesn't make you broken that's just

normal and you just have to figure out

how to deal with that it's life is hard

okay otherwise we'd be in the Twilight

Zone and then you know constant success

would actually feel like hell people

who've watched that episode know what I

mean with that but anyway having

something that you can provide value

with will actually help you eliminate

the lottery mentality not exactly I just

want to get viral doing something and so

I can like start selling merch and start

making it into my brand because I

understand winning big in a lottery

feels really good and then we constantly

want to go back to winning that Lottery

again but we've got to realize that life

is not always going to give you

lotteries in fact it rarely gives you

lotteries and when you can have a happy

and fulfilled Life by building up your

wealth one piece at a time by first

contributing to society and then

Building Wealth boy life becomes a whole

lot easier and then you don't have to

worry about all these problems that you

have then by default you could start

thinking about paying your own rent by

default you build savings because you're

making money by default you have Capital

that you can actually start investing is

she going to get rich adding another $50

to her stock account absolutely not this

person needs a job something that they

actually can provide value in not just

any kind of job and she's got a psych

degree she can also go back to school

and do something else you know like I

said become a real estate agent become a

CPA become an attorney plenty of things

you could do out there but anyway for

this particular individual everything

about her problem is her narcissism and

nothing beyond that and I'm not saying

that to offend her I'm not trying to you

know make her feel bad I'm not trying to

say she's a bad person just trying to

say she's got to start looking inward

because so far all she's doing is

pointing out as to why she's

sucking and you know what we say when

you point at someone or something else

three fingers on each hand point back at

the real problem you well I mean like

I'm the prize and like the guy is the

one where you should really care about

like their like living situation you

want to be a TRD wife yeah why not

advertise these things that you told us

here I feel like nobody else knows about

this we'll we'll try a little

advertising and see how it goes

congratulations man you have done so

much people love you people look up to

you Kevin P there financial analyst and

YouTuber meet Kevin always great to get

your take