Sadia Khan @Sadiapsychology

I think one thing women are in denial

about is the importance of sexual

attraction the importance of that and

sexual attraction is very important to

them you might be in love and all of

these things but let's say for example

you're married for 50 30 years a man's

drive and especially if he takes care of

himself it doesn't decrease so just

because you've established love and

Trust in the beginning 5 10 15 years it

doesn't mean that's going to be the

petrol and the gas for the rest of the

marriage you have to maintain that so

you do have to maintain a level of

attraction you do have to maintain a

level of intimacy otherwise they will

just Outsource it and we as women think

but I've been loyal to you for 10 years

and so what if I can't do it anymore or

so what if I've let myself go or so what

if I'm no long but from a man's

perspective it's a fundamental need that

does massively decrease so I think

they're in denial about that they're

also in denial about the amount of

appreciation and verbal affirmation men

need the amount of encouragement they

actually need the amount of verbal

affirmation men need