What is love??? #sadia#psychology#andrewtate#love#relationships#advice#podcasters

if you meet somebody and you're almost

becoming a bit obsessed you're kind of

thinking about them all the time waiting

for their next message dying to see them

again and just constantly checking on

them we as human beings tend to label

that as we must be in love but the

reality is that kind of behavior is

signaling that they are either

triggering your anxieties in a way that

you it leaves you insecure and worried

or you have a fear of Abandonment you

have a fear that this relationship's not

going to work because you've experienced

abandonment before and therefore you're

becoming overly clingy just to kind of

keep that person in your life that is

not a measure of love that is actually a

measure of chaos what you want to do

instead how you want to measure that you

love someone and their right for you is

how much they soothe your anxieties how

much do they bring you peace calm and

safety when you're