The Adam Levine Cheating DISASTER | Sumner v Behati Prinsloo Affair.

you know when I feel like I know that

somebody is a cheater it's when there's

an allegation of cheating but they say

oh I did not have an affair so according

to the dictionary an affair is actually

a longer term relationship with somebody

not just a fling and I feel like this is

a loophole where cheaters who have had

sex with people are able to say yeah

they say to themselves I had sex with

the person then it was great or whatever

but then publicly they tell people oh I

didn't have an affair and so even though

they know they cheated they tell the

world they did not have an affair

because they're playing the definitional

loophole that an affair is a

relationship and they feel like they

were just having sex so therefore

because they didn't have an affair they

could try to tell the world that no

they're not a scumbag cheater but we

have to be clear here the allegations

that Adam Levine is a cheater are just

that they're allegations and we have to

keep in mind that allegations could

ultimately be untrue even though in Adam

Levine's statement he does say the

phrase

Affair but no he did not have an affair

despite the allegations that are now

surfacing now I'm gonna give you a

summary of what is going on here and add

my personal life advice commentary as

somebody who's been married for nine

years and has two children seven and

four and a half don't forget the half

we're really important otherwise you

gotta piss off Max okay so I want to do

that because there are a lot of

triggered people on the internet that

are yelling and shouting and rightfully

so you know this is a little bit uh

dramatic uh but I I do think it's very

important to add some practical insight

and some practical life advice to this

so that way hopefully everybody can

learn from this and I'm going to use

myself as an example on this so some

background Adam Levine Maroon 5 singer

wife they've been married for eight

years she's a Victoria Secret Angel

obviously together they've got a lot

money Fame children family beautiful

home beautiful life hey sounds great

right I mean sure some people now call

Maroon 5 elevator music but you you know

I have to say it sounds like a pretty

nice setup for a happy life well there's

obviously a lot more to this because

something obviously broke because this

individual named Sumner Strow who's an

Instagram model allegedly she calls

herself an Instagram model uh says that

she had to come out with information and

the allegation that her and Adam Levine

had an affair for about a year within

the last year I was having an affair

with a man who's married to a Victoria's

Secret model at the time you know I was

young I was naive and I mean quite

frankly I feel exploited I wasn't in the

scene like I am now

um so I was definitely very easily

manipulated and the reason she was

coming out with that is because her

friend got screenshots because she sent

her friend those screenshots of her

basically having flirtatious

conversation conversations with Adam

Levine uh and some I imagine uh trophy

of how she had sex with Adam Levine

whatever and she wanted to get ahead of

her friend selling those screenshots to

a tabloid some friend or a creative

story to come out with this story for

yourself because see she that is similar

does say that she's new to LA but I'll

tell you even if you're new to La you

know if you break a big story like this

a big allegation against somebody who's

really got a lot more Fame than you it

brings a lot of attention to you it

brings a lot of hate to you but it could

also bring more people looking at your

Instagram profile and that is a way of

social media today now Sumner tried to

play this down by saying things like

well I was young the problem with that

is this was all happening within the

last year so you know you're 23 today

like what were you like 22 like I don't

know if that's the best excuse and I

don't know that the next best excuse

that she gives is really good either and

that's thing saying things like she

feels like she was manipulated exploited

because a she was new to LA and B Adam

Levine was using a verified account on

Instagram I have to say if you feel

manipulated by a blue check mark

my heart goes out to you because there

are bigger problems at play I only came

forward because I wanted to kill

whatever Story the Tabloid had the most

important part that I did definitely in

gloss over is the fact that I was under

the impression that their marriage was

over also he was jamming me straight

from his verified Instagram account I

didn't have any reason to further

question it but I now realized that that

was likely a manipulation tactic of his

you know just hiding in plain sight

nobody's hiding in plain sight and able

to manipulate people in my opinion or

should be able to because somebody has a

blue check mark and if that is true

maybe we need to start the trend expose

the blue check mark okay it sounds crazy

but now a lot of stress is being put on

Behati and to her children the family of

Adam Levine and they are the real

victims here not Sumner who had a

relationship likely a cheating

relationship and a sexual relationship

for a year and is now essentially

showing that off as a trophy to other

people certainly starting with her

friends but the real victim here and

this is why Sumner is getting a lot of

hate for potentially playing victimhood

the real victim here is bahati because

she is not only now pregnant with her

her third child but has to consider the

potential to go through a devastating

divorce or to stay with somebody who's a

cheater if indeed he is which obviously

at this point the internet is concluded

no he's a cheater Kevin don't even

suggest that he's not all right well

look here's the thing we're going to get

into some practical advice here but

there's some really funky things about

the story including a screenshot that

suggests Adam Levine asked for

permission from Sumner via a quote

serious question

that hey is it okay if he names his next

child if it's a boy Sumner spelled that

same way

s-u-m-n-e-r he said okay serious

question I'm having another baby and if

it's a boy I really uh want to name it

Sumner you okay with that dead serious

um

you know to me that just seems like

extremely inappropriate that would

almost be like me going to my wife and

saying hey can we name our next daughter

or our first daughter uh after my middle

school Crush except this is even worse

it's let's name our child after somebody

I've been

allegedly but likely doinking for the

last year that is really an ugly trophy

that is turning your child into a trophy

of your scandalous and undercover fling

quite dirty so there are some things

here that are pretty nasty in the story

and I think they can they actually help

make the situation quite viral a second

woman has come out she's a comedian uh

apparently she has screenshots showing

things like I'm obsessed with you uh and

her reply is like dude aren't you

married and his reply is like yeah but

it's a bit complicated stuff gets hard

and the vid thing didn't help I might

get away you know these things just

don't sound like they're from somebody

who has the correct intentions uh of

course assuming that these are indeed uh

from uh uh from from Adam Levine and

that that they're they're factual see

Aristotle and I'm a big Aristotelian you

know do the right thing when people

aren't even looking right that's very

important but Aaron Aristotle once said

it's the intention that makes the crime

see people make mistakes you know if if

you were right now teleported into a

room and you're a woman and there's a

there's a you know oiled up dude with a

six-pack and it's like hey here's some

wine or maybe you've already had

something to drink like let's go you

know that that is a situation where your

barriers are likely going to be very low

the same would be true in Reverse for a

guy you know you get teleported with

with a a model in a hotel room and

you're both naked and oiled up and

you've had alcohol your your barriers

are going to be very low to be able to

resist uh this this sort of Temptation

that's not to say you can't resist the

temptation and and everybody hopes that

they will be able to but your barriers

will be extremely low but again

Aristotle says it's the intention that

makes the crime and this is where

there's a difference between uh you know

a one-night mistake and a long-term

relation ship where you've clearly had

enough time to realize what you're doing

is wrong you've had enough time to try

to correct and remedy this situation but

you then only do once you're exposed

that's when you know in my opinion that

somebody really is more likely devious

and guilty than not because again the

intention makes the crime everybody

makes mistakes but the intention is

everything because intention and wrong

intentions lead to betrayal and a lack

of trust not only by your spouse and

your children but by others around you

whether it's in business or family or

otherwise and I think this is the most

devastating impact of somebody betraying

their family and really creates when we

can't say this enough that the biggest

victim here is bahati and everybody's

heart should go out to her and the

children especially given that she's

pregnant where you already have the

nightmares of pregnancy to go through

which are very terrible for some people

from not only nausea and morning

sickness but a massive hormone

imbalances that that make pregnancy

extremely stressful and in some cases

for people extremely painful

so terrible terrible timing for all of

this but uh you know ultimately the

truth tends to have a way of coming out

and oftentimes it comes out at a very

inconvenient time so what is my

practical advice for individuals in

relationships well my practical advice

here is uh it might sound cliche but

quite frankly it's communication

I have personally had feelings as well

of wanting to have sex with other women

I would have been extremely clear about

that to Laura and anytime I've gone

through those uh sort of phases of like

wow I I don't know why but I'm in this

phase right now where I have this

extreme urge uh to to have sex with

other women and and that could be

something that anybody could feel

whether they're a man or a woman about

another man or a woman and I think it's

very important to have that dialogue

with another person because you don't

want to act on those feelings and you

want to make sure you keep yourself away

from that Temptation now I've never

acted on those feelings uh as much as I

would have loved to in in life I've

never had add another sexual partner in

life I met Lauren when I was 16 years

old and she was 17 years old it was

scandalous but uh yeah I mean like I I

don't know what that's like uh and so

it's it's potentially even more tempting

uh for me but I don't put myself into a

dark alley because I don't want to get

mugged I don't put myself into

situations with other women because I I

don't want to betray Lauren and I don't

want to do what's wrong and and lose

that Aristotelian accredit Integrity

that that I feel I have so one of the

things that I found that's very useful

is when we have a problem with our

relationship I bring it up even if it

feels like it'd be difficult to bring up

you know it's very difficult to tell

your spouse that hey you have feelings

that you want to have sex with other

people but I actually think this is

extremely important because uh then then

you can you can walk through okay why uh

what's the goal what's missing what's

the feeling is it is it just lust is it

a desire for something different okay

can we do something different you know

what what can we do can we can we go on

a couples only vacation let's go to

Germany let's go to Italy let's get away

from the kids for a while uh what can we

do to get through this together not just

time wise but action-wise what can we do

differently uh and uh and I found

personally that that uh you know these

sort of feelings can come in in waves

where sometimes you're just like totally

uninterested you're you're busy and with

with other things and that's not even a

remote consideration and other times you

have this Amplified feeling of oh my

gosh like I'm vulnerable here right uh

and and I think having that that

discussion is is extremely clear uh so

that way you and your partner can work

on these situations uh together I

believe this is uh very very important

life advice it's worked very well for

Lauren and I it's never failed I hope it

never does fail uh and uh you know it

also certainly helps that uh if you keep

yourself away from Temptation it's very

hard to end up in that hotel room

because you can't get teleported like I

said in the situation anyway situation

sounds pretty crazy let me know what

your thoughts are in the comments down

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this isn't something I usually talk

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