Law 16: Use Absence To Increase Honor and Respect I Robert Greene

use absence to create honor and respect

and the idea is if you're always going

after the other person if you're always

the pursuer ETC they start to take you

for granted are you always the one

calling and texting you're in their face

constantly thinking that that's the way

to make them love you they take you for

granted they think you're so familiar

they have you Wrapped Around Your Finger

a little bit and unconsciously they lose

a bit of respect they may not say it but

it'll come out in their behavior and

over time you know that the spell of

Love Will kind of diminish so you want

to step back you want to create some

distance some absence and you want to

make them come to you instead of you

going to them if you make them take a

move towards you then the game is

reversed the dynamic is reversed now the

power is a little bit more on your side