Are Men Allowed To Struggle? @TomBilyeu

the interesting thing about the red pill

Community is they're the only community

that allows men to suffer so if a man

today says I am struggling the most

common thing that they hear in return is

that you are privileged you should not

be struggling so the interesting thing

is that the red pill Community is the

only community that says if you're

struggling yeah you are struggling

because you suck they're the only ones

that say yes your life is hard here is a

way to make it better and so I think one

of the biggest problems that we see with

men right now is that they have nowhere

else to go where someone at least

accepts the premise that your life is

hard now I think there's a lot of

toxicity that comes out of the red pill

Community because I've worked with a lot

of incels and red pillars and things

like that and I think that it's almost

textbook like avoidant attachment kind

of theory sort of stuff and literally

every single one that I've worked with

has had some kind of incredibly

traumatic experience with a woman that

they then generalize to women as a whole

which I think is a big mistake