10 easy ways to approach a beautiful woman

now building the confidence to talk to a

beautiful woman at a party a bar an

event an outing was something that's

been discussed a lot now you know the

problem though with a lot of these

conversations because really there have

been manuals and books and youtube

videos you know that have attempted to

address this matter the problem with

most of them is just the fact that they

make it seem so complicated now if you

ask me approaching a woman shouldn't be

a game of chess it's not as complicated

as some people make it sound and in

actual fact in this video i'm going to

be sharing with you 10 ways to easily

approach a beautiful woman that you are

attracted to or would like to make an

acquaintance with let's call this the

ultimate icebreaker stay tuned that's

coming up right after this

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welcome back my name is jessica i'm a

broadcaster i live in accra ghana thank

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right in 10 ways to approach a woman

especially if you're interested or want

to make her acquaintance number one be

chill

now i know approaching a stranger isn't

the most

chill thing to do because of course

you're most likely going to be

interrupting them interrupting their

flow interrupting their conversation

with somebody else or just interrupting

their thoughts

i get that

but you see

put yourself in their shoes or think

back to a time where someone approached

you for one thing or another

what you expected of them is for them to

be

cool calm and collected no need to be

nervous or

on edge or jittery

now once you start to exhibit those

kinds of signs

and it raises a bit of doubt in the

person you're approaching makes them

feel a little uncomfortable with you and

you may not get the desired result that

you're actually looking for so if you

want to approach a woman

successfully please by all means be cool

be calm

be collected and remember if you are

interested in approaching a woman when

she's in public then you might want to

start to pretend to yourself that she's

an old friend that you're meeting and

that will help calm your nerves a little

bit and that will help calm your nerves

a little bit

number two ditch the pickup lines now

it's totally understandable that you

would feel nervous when you are

approaching someone right for the first

time someone you don't know a total

stranger however please resist the urge

to give the

cheesy eye rolling

downright ridiculous pickup lines that

guys usually do go straight to the point

get to know her organically keep the

flattery in your back pocket nobody

needs that and just you know approach

her with all honesty and originality and

if she's gonna like you she absolutely

will but by all means please stay away

from the pickup lines as that's not

gonna get you very far number three so

number three is to read the room now by

that i mean actually pay attention to

what's going on around this

person of interest

now if she's someone who is busily

chatting away on her phone

is chatting with someone else probably

has a laptop in front of her and is

doing some work

you may not want to approach her at that

very moment you see the key to

flirtation is timing and if you get the

timing wrong you could completely blow

things out of the water and at the end

of the day you'll be the only one on the

losing end and so read the room what's

going on what's happening around her

does she have a welcoming face or she

does she have that

resting face that says don't

approach me it's very important that you

pay attention to what's going on in her

immediate surroundings to be able to

really time yourself appropriately and

increase your chances of success and

having a meaningful conversation with a

stranger that you absolutely want to

know so read the room number four number

four is to check her body language for

positive inviting cues listen guys do

not ignore it if a woman looks like she

is unapproachable i know there are

people who have

generally

very unapproachable looks you know like

i know like people tell me for instance

that when i'm not smiling i look too

serious and you know i look really

unapproachable and they're people like

that people like me maybe but body

language also matters does she smile at

the least chance she gets is she smiling

to someone else in the room is she

treating is she smiling at the waiter

who's serving her for instance

i mean read her body language there is

open body language and there's closed

body language if she's probably sitting

with her arms folded that might be a cue

that she's not ready to engage anybody

at all whereas if she's smiling a lot if

she's looking around the room as if

she's trying to

magically invite someone over to her

corner then chances are that she wants

to be approached by someone and so read

her body language accurately or at least

close to accurate so you don't make a

complete fool out of yourself now once

you do approach and slide into a

conversation it may be easy for you to

know whether this is a conversation she

wants to keep going if she's actually

smiling back at you engaging you as

opposed to looking away and trying not

to be bothered so these are all cues

that you absolutely must know before you

approach and when you actually do invade

her

space and time to try to engage her

you know the kind of body language that

she exudes also matters and should be a

big cue for you there's some guys who

don't know when to stop you know you

approach a woman she's not forthcoming

and yet you keep pushing that can be

annoying and she might just call

security on you

you don't want to be that guy

now check your own body language now

it's important that you get your own

body language right in some cases i've

heard people say hey you know what when

you want to approach a woman approach

him more from the side as opposed to

head-on because head-on could be quite

intimidating depending on the kind of

person you are how you look how tall you

are that kind of thing so you want to

sort of catch her by surprise from the

side but do not

also startle her because if she turns

around and looks into a face that she

can't recognize

she might end up screaming and you don't

want that so gently approach from an

angled position as opposed to from

head-on as that might paint a picture of

you being a less imposing figure it's

important to be confident and not cocky

when you approach her and this lies in

not just what you say but more in how

you act as well how you behave when you

do have her attention so first of all be

sure to make eye contact when you are

talking to her

keep your eyes focused on her and not in

an intimidating way but you know more

like a friendly inviting way that makes

her feel comfortable smize smile with

your eyes

number six is to keep your stakes low

and by this i mean cut your code

according to your size now there are

some women that you know you don't need

me to tell you you actually know their

way out of your league

let them be

all right for starters you may not have

the flare to kind of engage them in any

meaningful conversation and really you

should know exactly

what you're bringing to the table

monkeys play by sizes and trust me there

are other women out there who you could

potentially approach and level with so

keep the stakes low size her up find out

if she's the kind of girl that you think

you're comfortable or confident enough

to approach

and go for it or not number seven don't

ask for her number

at least not right away okay i've really

liked all my interactions where i've met

guys and they have rather given their

numbers to me and given me the option to

follow up and reach out now doing

something like that straight away tells

the woman that well you're leaving the

ball in their court as to whether they

want to make something of your meeting

and you know probably see you again plus

you're not putting her in an awkward

position to say no to you she really

doesn't want to give you a number or

giving you her number and then later

ignoring your calls so guys first rule

in the book is to make sure that you do

not ask for her number but give her your

number instead if she never reaches out

she was never interested from the get-go

and trust me it saves you a lot of time

money and effort number eight number

eight is to pay attention to negative

non-verbal cues all right there's

certain things that she may not say

like stay away or anything but she will

act

moves her body away from you you're

trying to engage her she's always on her

phone

looking barely looking up to hear you or

answer your questions

and that kind of thing take a cue all

right she may not say it they're not not

every woman is

straightforward enough to tell you hey i

don't want your attention get the out of

here right some women will just sort of

bear with you and bear with the

situation until they go don't forget a

lot of women tend to have a lot of men

hit on them at any particular point in

time and so

the first thing that happens when men

approach is for a

defense wall pretty much to spring up

and so you need to really be

paying attention to those non-verbal

cues

and negative body language that will

straight away tell you that hey my guy

move on to something better or something

else number nine be comfortable with

rejection now i've seen a man approach a

woman and things go from zero to a

hundred really fast where a hundred was

she was livid literally shouting at him

to get the

away from her

um

guys

do not fear rejection

i know i'm a woman probably haven't

experienced that too many times in my

life

but really don't fear rejection if you

fear rejection you will never have the

opportunity to actually

experience life for what it is rejection

is a normal part of life and in actual

fact i did a whole video on how to deal

with rejection and i'll share it in the

description below and you can click on

that as well to watch it if you haven't

but do not fear rejection it's okay to

be rejected if she doesn't want you

trust me there'll be hundreds of other

women who possibly do now it's important

to enter every situation with high

involvement but low attachment what does

that mean it means that you are engaged

and ready to connect and optimistic

about the opportunity but you have

little attachment to the results such

that if it goes the other way as in a

way that you do not appreciate or did

not anticipate you won't be too

disappointed and can still move on

and finally respect her time so you've

approached her she's

laughing all night she seems to love

your company and everything

i think because you interrupted her

night whatever that may mean

you should always

leave her wanting more okay

now she obviously didn't come out

expecting to meet you but some way

somehow your paths crossed which is

fantastic

but i would say

leave her wanting more so it was great

you spent say 20 30 minutes chatting

with her

getting to know her she was receptive

and everything

but attempt to leave and even allow her

to say oh don't go i'm totally enjoying

your company or just say well i know i

was just here i really liked what i saw

and i thought we could be friends reason

i came over i will not take too much of

your time tonight but if you'd like to

connect here's my number call me

and vanish

she will wonder who you were because not

a lot of guys do that in fact they

usually don't even know when to stop so

if you can master that

dude you're halfway there so give her

time respect your time

and bow out before the game gets cold

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