When someone talks over you, do this. | Mel Robbins #Shorts

if someone talks over you they have no

interest in listening to what you have

to say that's disrespectful they care

more about what they have to say which

is why they're talking over you and

there's some really interesting research

around this this comes from research

from Harvard Business review and what

you're going to do if somebody starts

talking over you you're you're in a

meeting you're talking all of a sudden

John starts talking over you first

things first keep talking and a real

power move is slow down and the second

thing that you're going to do use their

name Mike I'm going to finish my point

this is an important topic and I just

wanted to make sure that everyone's

informed and I'll be glad to get your

feedback Mike after I've shared my

perspective but I'd like to make sure

you actually hear my perspective first

you don't have to stop talking you don't

have to give in don't let your brothers

and your sisters or some colleague talk

over you and then when you're done

talking Here's the final thing you do

you know Mike I know you were trying to

uh insert your ideas earlier I would

love to hear what you have to say now

Mike if somebody doesn't respect what

you have to say stop giving them power

you need to respect what you have to say

enough to keep on talking