Seeing Through the Fake and the Toxic I Robert Greene

a lot of times when we meet a person we

can sense right away that there's

something wrong about them and I tell

people who get into toxic relationships

can you go back to that moment when you

first met them and can you remember a

moment where you got initially a little

bit uncomfortable in their presence or

conflated discomfort with butterflies

passion yeah yeah but you didn't trust

the feelings that's what I'm getting at

right so a lot of people have the right

instincts because we are animals and we

can kind of feel that a person is fake

that a is hiding something children are

very good at that they can sense that

someone is fake or they're hiding yeah

full of shed and we have it too to some

degree but we don't trust our instincts

so that's the other problem we're all

sort of sensing that something is wrong

but we we've learned to like not trust

these kind of feelings and instincts