Avoidant attachment style #psychology #advice #relationships #podcast #redpill #love #sadia

people who have that trauma they become

hyper independent and what happens is

when somebody wants a lot of their time

and energy instead of seeing it as a

form of love they see it as a form of

control they always want space so even

if they're married a part of them wants

like a separate bedroom or when they

start to get attached to somebody as

much as they want emotional intimacy

they want distance what happens is they

kind of intimacy distance intimacy

distance and then sometimes you end up

not cheating but just opening doors to

other women not because you want to

cheat but you just want to create

independence from your partner you just

want to create an emotional distance

other things that they'll do is they

point point out flaws in their partner

not because there are flaws but they're

trying to emotionally detach so their

partner will after being with somebody

who's hyper independent their partner's

like does he even love me