Make your kids socially desirable - Jordan Peterson

used to roll our daughter around in a

stroller and these rough guys you know

like god only knows what they were up to

they're rough looking guys you know we'd

roll our daughter by them and they'd

they'd like smile and they'd crouch down

and make little goo faces and i tell you

one of the great things about having

little kids is they bring out the best

in other people you see a whole side of

humanity even among the darker parts of

humanity you see a whole side of them

that you wouldn't normally see and it's

lovely and the thing is if you're good

to your kid in the real way you can help

them maintain that tremendous

attractiveness that they have as young

children and to respond to adults

properly like a puppy that wags its tail

instead of growls and you know goes for

your ankle and then wherever they go

adults welcome them and teach them

things and pat them on the head and

smile at them genuinely instead of

saying oh my god here comes that couple

with that goddamn brat again

you know which is the horrible that's

horrible thing to do to a child because

then everywhere they go all the good all

the good will is false