Pregnancy 🫄and parenting 🤱God anupama urutu

Hello everyone welcome to my

channel it's been a while sin

ce I posted a video because I

had some health issues not a

little but a lot of health i

ssues so I said let's come an

d fix all those health issues

and post a video and leave a

little gap so come today and

let's get into our straight

video it's been so long I apo

logize to you for not posting

a video today let's get into

the straight topic today so

what did you see today I star

ted this channel for a long t

ime and thought I should post

this is the second or third

video but I couldn't post it

so today I got time for that

I have been thinking about th

is for a long time now is the

time for that I see this, yo

u must have seen it yourself,

but we are talking about thi

s video, Anupama Vriksha, and

they often come and cause co

ntroversy. If you ask them, e

verything they say is right,

then it is not right. If you

ask them, everything is wrong

, then it is not wrong. They

have uploaded many good thing

s in their videos. I have als

o liked some videos and comme

nted a lot, but there are som

e things that are not easy to

understand. Recently, they h

ave come on Instagram and put

reels on them. They have put

it like a collab video. They

are promoting it in the crib

. There is nothing wrong with

them using it for the boy, b

ut I say that it is wrong to

tell them on social media and

tell us to do it. If you ask

ed them that a four-year-old

baby needs a crib, then it is

definitely wrong. When they

came to the four-year-olds, t

hey came and said that the ma

ximum is a three-kilogram cri

b, and we put it in ours. Som

e people even add an L-kilogr

am crib. For a child who goes

to school, we can put it in

the crib and you can put it i

n the crib and say that it is

okay. I don't know how this

is right. They come a lot lik

e this and mislead, mislead,

and come and come and come an

d I have a lot of conflict wi

th them and I have a lot of q

uestions. When I came and cam

e and went to their comment s

ection and asked them, what d

id they say? They read the co

mments and then after a while

they come and delete the com

ments. If you ask me if this

is only happening to me, then

they won't. They come and co

nduct classes with them and d

o everything. Don't they? Joi

n those classes and it's wort

h it. A lot of people are aff

ected. They all do it in that

comment. No, they DM them. T

hey come and delete that comm

ent. The athletes are scared

to death. Okay, this is wrong

. We thought we shouldn't do

this. But those who want to c

ome out of it are also deleti

ng that comment. So what's th

e matter? I don't have a prob

lem with it. I know that ther

e are some contradictory thin

gs that many people have said

and I want to share them wit

h you. There are many people

who come to this video and ac

cept everything they say. The

re are many people who do not

. I think they will definitel

y come and enjoy this video.

Some people will skip all tho

se videos and leave. So in th

e same way, come to this vide

o and skip all those things t

hat they say. Some people com

e and blindly believe in ever

ything they say. Have you see

n that they follow it? Surely

, this video is for them firs

t of all. Is it an experience

? Who are these people? When

they come and talk, they are

like an engineer. They have s

tudied four years of engineer

ing, they have a well-settled

family, they can even say th

ey are well-educated. Family

Background is okay, but some

opinions they say are very co

ntradictory to me. Personally

What are they saying? I am a

well trained, that is, natio

nalized. They come to you and

I will add a screenshot on t

he page. They come and train

you well, pre-delivery, pre-d

elivery, post-delivery, pre-p

regnancy, post-pregnancy. The

y come and train you well. Th

ey conduct courses like this

at their institute. Many preg

nant ladies, even their husba

nds, come and join them and t

ell them what to eat and what

not to eat. What to do befor

e the birth of the child, wha

t to do after the birth of th

e child, all those kinds of t

hings, they tell them, how co

me they come and tell them th

emselves, so they call me a t

rained, trained, pre-delivery

, post-delivery, pre-pregnanc

y, post-pregnancy, and so on.

They come and say that Norma

l India is not even a nationa

lized international, they com

e and say that they are well

trained, well educated, that

is, how do they say labor, ed

ucator, delivery, educated, a

nd so on. They say that they

studied engineering and did a

three-month course, and then

they come and say, "Do you s

ee, I have studied this cours

e and come here. All this has

come and Three to six maximu

m, even one year, come and st

udy a one year course and com

e back. There is a big differ

ence between our theoretical

knowledge and our practical k

nowledge. These people come a

nd say that they are well tra

ined and well educated. Then

they come for five years, fiv

e to six years, study MBBS, d

o one year internship, then s

tudy MS, study MD, then study

specialist. Have you seen th

em come and study OG, study g

ynecologist, orthotist, then

dermatologist, neurologist, e

tc. like that? They studied M

BBS for each field, but they

studied MS, MD, and now they

study separately for each fie

ld. They come and then they T

hey raised that child for 11

years. They raised that child

for 11 years. Now I am a mot

her to a five-year-old baby a

nd a mother to a two-and-a-ha

lf-year-old baby. I don't kno

w much about it. Actually, my

first degree is in pharmacy,

which means medicine. We bot

h studied it. Why am I saying

this? I studied medicine. I

came to know a few things, wh

ich means I know how to take

the tablets. We know the side

effects of these tablets. We

know which brand these table

ts are now. We know what they

are prescribed for. We know

whether we will issue them to

the patients or not. We will

issue them in the medical sh

op. Doctor, this tablet If it

was written, that fashion ha

s this problem, that's why th

ey wrote it, we would know, b

ut we ourselves come to us an

d say, "No, my friend is preg

nant, even when I'm pregnant,

I'll come to my friend's con

versation and say, "It's been

three months, they've prescr

ibed this tablet for me." I w

ill say, "No, they've given m

e all these tablets," and the

y'll say, "It's been three mo

nths for both of us, but they

've given you a different one

, and they've given me a diff

erent one." That's not the ca

se here, it's three months fo

r you and three months for me

, but my body condition is di

fferent." My health condition

is different, what is my pro

blem, what is your problem, y

ou will give me a tablet for

your problem. I have gestatio

nal sugar and it is my first

baby. What kind of food shoul

d I eat? What kind of medicin

e should I take? When should

I take a glucose test? When s

hould I take a HP test? You w

ill tell me that this is diff

erent for each patient. Every

one is pregnant. Everyone car

ries their baby for 10 months

. You will not give everyone

the same artificial acid ion

tablet. You will come to some

one and start them from three

months. For some people, you

will come and start artifici

al acid ion tablet right afte

r they become pregnant. They

will tell you to do it. It al

l depends on their body condi

tions and their health condit

ions. How did these people co

me to this point? I will give

you an example. Even the doc

tor who saw the delivery said

10, 15, 10, 15. I will give

you an example. Even the doct

or who saw the delivery said

100, 200. I will come and tel

l you that I am an internatio

nalized, nationalized, well-t

rained educator and all these

pregnant people do not belie

ve me. They will charge you ₹

500. It is normal. I will com

e and tell you for an example

. Now, if we come and see a g

ynecologist, they will charge

you ₹500. You can come and s

ee our consultation. There ar

e those who cannot afford tha

t ₹500. If we go to our consu

ltation, we will ask them abo

ut your health conditions, ta

ke blood tests, and tell them

that you have this problem.

They will tell you how to be

careful, eat this kind of tab

let, eat this kind of food, h

ow to be like this, can you l

ift weights, can you go for a

duck walk, can you not go, a

nd so on. They will tell you

all the advice that you have,

and the gynecologist you are

seeing will tell you this. B

esides, there are many adults

in our house, aren't there?

Those adults who have had chi

ldren, grown up, studied, got

married, and are now taking

advantage of them. Tell me, t

his person has experience. So

me adults may not know, or th

ey may not be at home. But of

course, everyone should go t

o the doctor for a baby. You

should ask the doctor. What k

ind of problem do you have? N

o doctor will tell you. So ho

w can you blindly trust them?

I don't know. I don't unders

tand. You don't know. You don

't do this or that without do

ing a blood test. You do ever

ything like this. You don't k

now what they are saying. All

this. Come on. Okay. Fine. N

ow. Everything is easy on soc

ial media. Everything is easy

for us. We can find out. And

even after a few days, they

come to me and tell me that t

hey have delivered so many we

ll-tried babies. I have seen

so many deliveries. I know ho

w to do a delivery, I will ta

ke a course too. They will te

ll me that the course is avai

lable. I went and saw that it

was from 4:30 to 9:30 or som

ething like 5:30 to 9:30. I t

hink they charge ₹3000 for th

at three-hour course. Those w

ho come and study for this co

urse and join it, they charge

₹3000. Why do they charge ₹5

00? You always go to the gyne

cologist to have a baby, but

when we come to a hospital, w

e go to the hospital anyway.

You can ask them yourself. Th

ey won't tell you. You can su

ggest to them, I have all the

se examples, should I exercis

e, what time should I go for

a walk, when should I go for

a walk, what food should I ea

t? They are going to tell me,

but I don't know. They are t

he only doctors in this world

who are well educated, well

trained, and look at their de

livery. Look, they are all ta

lking about themselves. They

are not blind. Please, my fri

ends, look at what they are d

oing. They are actually runni

ng a school. They are doing t

his much for this course. The

y are using this social media

very correctly. Those who ha

ve completed a course of two

and six months and have come

and studied engineering are s

aying so much about medical m

atters. Those who are already

in the medical line are sayi

ng it is easy. Why do you nee

d to study to become a doctor

? There is no need to study e

ngineering or computer scienc

e or chemistry or something l

ike that. If you have complet

ed a course like this, it is

enough. We also come and say

that we know everything. We c

ome and become nationalized,

we are well educated, we come

and become educators. We can

put ourselves on our website

. So many people can come and

teach us. We can earn money

like this. We can do everythi

ng like this. It is like, the

n come and become an MBBS or

a gynecologist. I think we do

n't need to study all that. T

hese people do everything. I

saw a comment. I saw a sister

doing all the exercises they

said and doing all this duck

work. She said that her cerv

ix opened at 32 weeks. Then s

he went to the hospital and a

sked, "Who told you to do all

this?" Then they told her to

take complete bed rest, like

a preterm baby flies. In tha

t situation, they realized th

at we had made a mistake. The

y should have asked the docto

r. Then, in that situation, t

hey felt it and told them all

that. This happened to me an

d they commented on their vid

eo. They read it and immediat

ely deleted the comment. Then

a sister came and posted it

on someone else's video. I ha

ve seen all this. Similarly,

many people post videos, but

the comment is deleted within

a short time. So, many peopl

e come to this place and ther

e is always a contradiction.

Even though there is a contro

versy, people come and trust

them blindly. For example, if

I want to say that there is

a lot of difference between p

ractical knowledge and theore

tical knowledge. Whether we s

tudy in our school or college

, let's say that I am the one

who is studying. I'm telling

you, now we study pharmacy f

or four years, in four years,

we study all the trunks, wha

t does it say, how is it meta

bolized, how is it absorbed,

how does it get disintegrated

in the stomach, how is it ex

creted, we study everything,

what is the onset of action,

what is the duration, we stud

y everything, even in our pra

ctical, we have tested and se

en this, I have studied every

thing theoretically, there is

also practical, I have taken

all that and gone, I come an

d now I can do all that for o

thers, for example, there is

a drug called paracetamol, th

is paracetamol comes and says

chemical name There is one,

so now I know the chemical na

me, so I went to the store an

d told everyone the chemical

name. Now I have read it. Now

everyone knows that paraceta

mol is a common name. Let's s

ay paracetamol is an antipyre

tic. Okay, no need for all th

at. I have one paracetamol. N

ow I have a headache. I put p

aracetamol on it. Others have

a fever. They put paracetamo

l on it. Now my friend and I

are discussing it. Come on, t

hey gave me paracetamol. What

did they give you? Paracetam

ol. I gave paracetamol for a

headache. You gave paracetamo

l for a fever. How can you gi

ve both the same thing? You a

re different and I am differe

nt. But how can you give both

people the same drug? Tell t

hem, come here, a truck will

do two kinds of action, there

are many like that, now I ha

ve a headache, I can give par

acetamol, for fever, I can gi

ve paracetamol, now, why am I

coming to tell you this, onl

y a doctor knows what your pr

oblem is, what medicine will

be given to you, what kind of

exercise will be good for yo

u, only a doctor knows, like

this, after studying engineer

ing, after studying a course

for three months or six month

s, this kind of person comes

and misleads, they come and s

pread a lot of misinformation

, there are many of them, lik

e this, they come and give mi

lk to a four-year-old baby, t

hey say that there is nothing

wrong, but if you ask a doct

or, six months to one year Ou

r mother's milk has all the s

trength until you drink it fo

r more than one year. You dri

nk milk for more than one yea

r. There will be no strength.

I myself have been feeding m

y baby for two years. So the

maximum is that you should fe

ed your baby for two years. I

f you go to the doctor, he wi

ll strictly tell you to drink

milk until one year. Drink i

t until four years. Drink it

until three years. This is ou

r choice. I will give my chil

d three years to drink it. Yo

u can drink your child four y

ears. That is not wrong. But

it is not wrong to put it on

social media and say that you

can drink it even until four

years. You shouldn't tell ev

eryone here. Everyone's situa

tion is different. Everyone's

health conditions are differ

ent. Because of the feeding,

many ladies who come here hav

e back pain. Their family sit

uation is different. They dri

nk milk all night and make it

very difficult for their chi

ldren. This is also a problem

for children. There is no st

rength. I have been drinking

for four years. There is no s

trength. There is nothing. Wh

y are you telling me to drink

and you are posting this and

posting videos like this? I

don't know. There are many, m

any, many things like this. N

ow I have this problem. I am

going for it. And you also ha

ve another problem. I am goin

g for it. And you are Can you

tell me that I don't have ch

ildren? If I went to the doct

or, you would do all this. Ot

hers have a different problem

. They won't have children. B

ut if you come and tell them

to eat this way, exercise thi

s way, and do everything, the

y will have a different style

. I will have a different sty

le. People come and tell them

that they don't believe you.

They are the ones who are we

ll trained and well educated.

That's what I thought I woul

d say in this video. There ar

e many things, but I forgot t

o tell you many things. But t

his is the exact thing. Every

thing is on social media. A c

ouple of years ago, I was her

e. Ranipet, near Vellore, I w

atched YouTube and told how t

o deliver and did it at home.

The baby died. Everything is

on social media and there ar

e many good things. There is

no wrong thing on social medi

a. So, let's take only the go

od things from social media.

Please skip the bad things an

d leave them there. What can

I say? These people have put

a lot of good things in their

videos. Please take those go

od things. But if they say so

mething, don't blindly follow

it. Consult your doctor. The

y say this. I said that I sho

uld do this for my health con

dition. Just tell them. After

consulting, you should follo

w it. You should follow it an

d you should understand that

you have a sin in your stomac

h. You don't have a problem,

but the child doesn't have a

problem. This is a problem. M

any people came and said that

this video is a blind follow

er. Please stay away from thi

s. Listen to the adults at ho

me. If you say that even adul

ts don't know, ask your docto

r. These are two people who a

re more experienced than them

. They came without studying

anything. They studied a cour

se for three years and three

months. If they come and say

that they don't know, you sho

uld see and understand. They

are not the so-called nationa

lists that they say. Okay, th

at's all. This video is next,

I will meet you in a super v

ideo. Thanks for watching.