The Difference Between Nice Guys vs. Good Guys

there's a big difference between being

selfless and being a nice guy so a nice

guy is someone who acts selflessly in

order to get something in return oh you

your boyfriend just dumped you let me

take you out to dinner for Valentine's

Day just so you don't feel alone I'm

going to do it out of like the kindness

of my heart and then after a few months

of doing this surely you'll fall in love

with me because I have all the qualities

I'm not going to abandon you like your

boyfriend did I'm going to be such a

sacrificial nice person but at the end

of it nice guys want something nice guys

aren't good guys they're nice nice guys

expect something in return Good Guys

expect nothing in return they're good

because they want to be good not because

they're trying to use it as manipulation

of you when you say I feel like I

struggle to convey authenticity why the

do you even care about conveying

authenticity see if your goal is to

convey authenticity then you want

something in return stop trying to

convey authenticity be authentic if

other people see it they see it if they

don't see it they don't see

it