"If you are scared of relationships.. watch this" - Matthew Hussey

a lot of people are afraid that they're

going to get into another relationship

that they're going to get close to

someone that person is going to hurt

them but their experience has shown them

in the past that when someone hurt them

like that they didn't necessarily have

the strength to walk away they didn't

necessarily have the strength to rebuild

themselves you know I had a woman come

to me you know she had children from a

previous marriage and her husband

cheated on her she said I find it

difficult to trust in the next thing I

said but you eventually left right you

you're not who you were seven years ago

where you found out and then stayed for

seven years you're who you are today who

actually had the strength to leave and

understanding that is the key to

self-trust we've learned how to deal

with certain situations we've learned

how to walk away faster we've learned

how to spot red flags in a way that our

21 year old self was far too naive to or

ignored so it's not like we have to

worry are they going to cheat them are

they going to do well they might you

don't trust that someone's never going

to betray you you just trust that you'll

be able to handle it if they do that

you'll be able to walk away