"Casual sex doesn't work" - Jordan Peterson

first of all i think casual sex is a

contradiction in terms i don't think

there's anything about sex that's casual

and i think that people are deceiving

themselves badly whenever they think so

they might like to live in a you know

1970s playboy adolescent fantasy but i

don't i've never seen that work under

any circumstances whatsoever and i think

people get hurt badly it's also a bad

medium to long term strategy because you

know pair bonding is a is the most

stable arrangement we know of at least

so far

well i won't even put it that way it's

the only stable

mode of being that we know for the long

run and that's especially the case when

you bring children into the equation i

think it's delusional fundamentally and

i think that people who are who believe

that such things work i mean sometimes

they're open people and they're creative

and they're exploratory and all of that

and fair enough but often they're just

unconscientious and they don't want to

take any responsibility and they want to

live in this wish fulfillment fantasy

where everybody can have all the sex

they want all the time and it's always

wonderful and no one gets hurt and it's

like sorry that just doesn't work in the

real world