How To Make Men Open Up

Women who want men to share more, to

open up, don't interrupt him. When he

pauses, count to 30. Most men will come

in at about 18, unless you're asking

about feelings, could be 3 days. Don't

ever ask a question that isn't worth

waiting for the answer. Women start

waiting for the answer. And lo and

behold, men start talking, which is

amazing. He's opening up. Then they have

a new complaint. Well, I listened to him

for an hour and a half, and then he

didn't listen to me. Men show

appreciation by take and use. Women show

appreciation by direct reciprocity.

I listen to you for 27 minutes. Now you

listen to me for 27 minutes. And women

are profoundly aware of this. We know

this. Okay, it's your turn. I've been

talking this whole time. Now it's your

turn. It's like a little ticker going.

So yeah. So women, the men will open up

and then they'll complain, but they're

not listening to me. Well, that's a

whole other thing. Get listened to by a

man. He's not going to do it in return.

And he's not built that