2 Things Socially Confident People Do

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here's two things socially confident

people do number one is focus outward

when you feel awkward it's usually

because you get distracted from the

conversation with worry about how you're

coming across to the other person

sometimes focusing only on what you're

trying to avoid leads you straight to it

confident people haven't worked out how

to prevent awkward moments from

happening in fact they don't try to

avoid them at all their focus is on the

person in front of them and number two

be willing to experience shyness and

awkward moments both occur naturally

from everyone sometimes and the

possibility of them happening doesn't

disappear but both lose their power over

you when you face them and discover that

you can tolerate a few awkward moments

and when you're no longer focused on

avoiding them they no longer threaten to

shrink your social world