The Problem with Being a "Nice Guy" in Relationships and Why You Finish Last #dating #cheating #love

had a very neglectful or abusive or

alcoholic father something along those

lines which made them over identify with

their mother

firstly I have yet to meet a nice guy

that doesn't have some childhood

concerns and what I mean by childhood

issues is usually they grew up in a

broken home not necessarily broken but

they have some kind of Disconnect with

their father at very least they might

have been that they had a very passive

father at the very extreme end they had

a very neglectful or abusive or

alcoholic father something along those

lines which made them over identify with

their mother and what I mean by

overidentifying with your mother is you

assume your mother was correct in

everything she said and as a result they

become submissive to women in general

they tend to believe women in every way

shape or form and they really seek

female approval they disconnect with the

males in their life particularly their

father and then they seem to think that

women essentially are the only people

you should care about their approval

matters more than anything