The Deserved Downfall of Angela Deem (90 Day Fiancé)

from controlling her husband's every

move.

>> I want you to take that Instagram down

and keep it down.

>> I am not taking it down. And that is it.

>> To making choices that ultimately got

her fired from the show that you now let

me tell you something. You better get

your ass and get your

duck up. Duck up.

>> Angela Deem gave us some of the most

shocking moments in 90-Day Fiance

history. What started as an age gap

romance quickly turned into something

much darker. A story of control, abuse,

and manipulation that finally caught up

with her. This is the complete timeline

of Angela Deem's downfall and why it was

absolutely deserved. Angela Deem and

Michael Elani first appeared on season 2

of Before the 90 Days in 2018. Michael

had reached out to Angela first after

finding her Facebook profile. The

52-year-old grandmother from Georgia was

about to meet the 30-year-old man from

Nigeria, creating a 22-year age gap that

would become the least of their

problems.

>> We both were telling damn lies cuz he

was 30 and I'm 52.

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We are 20 years apart. I never dated

anybody this young, but I was like, I'm

just going to go for it.

>> From their very first meeting, the

warning signs were everywhere. Angela

didn't trust Michael and made it clear

she wasn't going to let him out of her

sight. What seemed like normal jealousy

at first was actually the beginning of a

pattern of control that would get worse

with each passing year. What viewers

didn't realize at the time was that they

were witnessing the foundation of

Angela's eventual downfall. Her

inability to trust and her need to

dominate would ultimately destroy

everything she claimed to want. During

their early days on the show, Angela

would scream, throw things, and storm

off during arguments, only to come back

acting like nothing happened. Michael,

desperate for his visa to America, put

up with behavior that no one should ever

have to deal with.

>> I better not be making a mistake,

Michael.

>> I love you.

>> I love you, too.

>> And I know you love me, and I can see it

in your eyes.

>> But this was only the beginning. As

their relationship continued, Angela's

needs to control every part of Michael's

life would escalate to shocking levels.

One of Angela's first major blowups

happened at a bar in Nigeria. After

catching Michael in what she thought was

a lie, Angela went to drink away her

anger. When Michael followed her to try

and talk, Angela completely lost

control. The moment Michael walked into

that bar, chaos started. Angela's anger

exploded as she threw the Coke he had

bought for her. Michael tried to stay

calm, telling her to relax and listen to

him, but Angela was done listening.

>> I bought you cool.

>> I don't want your [ __ ] phone.

>> She screamed at him to take his things

out of her room and leave her alone as

she broke up with him right there in

front of everyone. The shame was written

all over Michael's face, but this was

just the start of Angela's public

attacks on her partner.

>> Get

Michael. I'm going to hit you right in

your mouth.

>> You don't [ __ ] Get get your [ __ ] and

get out of my room cuz we are doing

about

>> This incident showed viewers what was

coming next. A relationship where Angela

felt she could humiliate Michael

whenever she wanted and Michael would

have to take it. What happened next

would become one of the most iconic

moments of their toxic relationship and

it involved a cake that was meant to be

a peace offering. After their bar fight,

Michael thought he could fix things with

a sweet gesture. He showed up at the

salon where Angela was getting her hair

done, carrying a cake and hoping his

cake plan would work. In his mind,

Angela loved cake. So, this would surely

make her forgive him.

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Oh my god.

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He was completely wrong. When Michael

walked into that salon, Angela

immediately yelled that she didn't want

to see him or fight with him. Even the

hair stylists told him to leave before

things got worse. But Michael kept

trying to talk to her, and that's when

Angela snapped. That's not going to work

this time.

>> No, Michael. That's not going to work.

I'm embarrassed that you come up here.

I'm already upset.

>> I'm sorry.

>> No, you're not. Sorry.

>> There's your cake, Michael.

>> She grabbed that cake and shoved it

right into Michael's face, covering him

in frosting and shame. Michael stood

there crushed as Angela made sure

everyone in the salon knew exactly what

she thought of his peace offering. This

moment became a defining symbol of

Angela's character. Her willingness to

destroy kind gestures and humiliate

someone who was trying to make amends.

Viewers began to see her true nature and

public opinion started turning against

her. His cake plan was officially

cancelled. And so was any hope that

Angela might handle disagreements like a

grown-up. Around this same time, Angela

made a decision that would reveal

exactly how she really felt about the

man she claimed to love. Angela's

paranoia and distrust reached new

heights when she decided to make a will.

Before marrying Michael, Angela

discovered that as her husband, he would

inherit everything if she died.

>> Do you have a will?

>> No.

>> Okay. While you love with your heart,

think with your head, you know. So,

let's say you marry Michael. If

something happens to you and you die

without a will, he could be entitled to

everything as your husband. The thought

of Michael getting her possessions sent

Angela into a panic, and she rushed to a

lawyer to create a will that would cut

him out completely. Sitting in that

lawyer's office, Angela made it clear

that she had already made promises to

her grandchildren that whatever belonged

to her is theirs. The doubt on her face

said it all. She was marrying someone

she didn't trust and didn't consider

family.

>> About the house first. I want Michael to

be a part of the house, but I want him

to have 50 the six grandkids 50/50 with

Michael. Nobody can

>> Michael to have 50% and the grandkids to

have 50%.

>> Yep.

>> This is weird. I'm talking about a death

and I'm getting married like

>> But Angela's obsession with control was

about to take a digital turn that would

consume their relationship for years to

come. Angela's need for control reached

new heights when it came to social

media. She demanded that Michael delete

his Instagram account because she was

terrified he might cheat through social

media. When Michael tried to keep some

independence by keeping his account,

Angela saw this as an act of war.

>> I refuse. Why did I refuse?

Why did I refuse?

>> Because you're an idiot.

The situation got worse when Michael

told Angela he would only delete

Instagram if she paid him $5,000.

While this might sound crazy, Michael

had been financially dependent on Angela

for years, unable to work or support

himself because of her restrictions.

>> Are you not all of a sudden put your