the best s*x you've ever had

So

she moans loud enough in bed

and she wants you to do to her

all those things you wish to do to a

girl in bed.

She comes three times and

checks almost every box of being the

dream girl

sexually.

The only tiny little detail

is that she's probably faking it.

We as female gender been taught for

years

that it is quite dangerous

not giving men sex

because if we don't he might cheat on

us, he might lie. He might

replace us.

Girls would do everything to avoid that.

And so they go to the same textbook that

you're going on how to [ __ ]

And they learn in details what you like,

what will make you fulfilled,

what will make you think you got a best

deal deal in life by having a dream girl

in bed.

The market is flooded with things that

can help girls appear to you as if

they're sexually attracted to you.

I'll give you one example.

There is an oil that girls put on their

[ __ ] that gives a warm sensation

which cause wetness.

as a chemical reaction.

There is no sexual pleasure there. In

fact, it burns.

But by the time you see her, you are so

sure she's so horny.

When you meet a girl and

she acts as if she knows too much in bed

is either she's a very good stripper

or she fakes very well.

It takes time

for a woman to discover what she wants

in bed.

It takes time for her to stop faking.

It takes time for her to stop fearing

the danger in not giving you the sex as

it should be according to porn.

Let me ask you this. Do you want do you

want a porn star in bed or do you want

to [ __ ] like nobody else ever did?

When you walk inside a bedroom acting

like a porn star, she would feel

pressure to be a porn star herself.

Sexual trust between a man and a woman

takes a lot of time.

And it's supposed to be that way.

The deeper you walk into her soul,

the deeper you penetrate her body.

That's the order of things that need

should be in a bedroom. Imagine

you [ __ ] her soul and at the same time

you [ __ ] her body.

Now that's sex.

If you make her feel that there is a

pressure that you need from her certain

things that you want to [ __ ] her in a

way that you've been taught she likes,

it won't last.

Because for a woman to want you

sexually,

she needs her emotions to be stimulated,

her safety to be the major thing she

feels when she is with you. Safety means

I don't have to be someone I'm not. I

don't fear that if I am myself, you

would leave me.

I don't fear that if I will be myself,

you will judge me for it.

That's safety.

Intimacy doesn't start in the bedroom.

It's not that as soon as you close the

door, you let her know there is no

pressure. that there is no pressure

starts in the beginning of the day, in

the night before and the beginning of

your walk together.

The main dish on the table shouldn't be

sex.

The main dish on the table should be

intimacy.

If you put sex on the table, if you work

with meat, meat has an expiration date.

So, no wonder why you end up starving.

Those couples who are looking to add

spice to the bedroom

started with meat. They eat meat on the

table and meat gets boring. Meat lacks

flavor over time.

So, the only way for them to keep on

going is by adding spices. But if you

walk through intimacy

and intimacy builds sex in a way that

the sex can never be boring. Sex is an

outcome of intimacy,

not the other way around.

If you want something to last, you

should bring honesty. You should bring

authenticity. You should bring

vulnerability into the table. If you

walk with her inside the bedroom and you

see her naked, don't assume that her

soul is naked, too.

When you walk with her into the bedroom,

the first priority should be making her

feel comfortable

being herself.

There are many men out there that want

to appear gentlemen in the bedroom and

so they say,

"I want to make my woman come first."

That's [ __ ]

Because if you want to make her come

first, don't put your tongue on her

[ __ ]

Make her so wet and how you make her so

wet.

Touch her emotionally.

Hairman

is someone who knows her internally.

That even if you both stand in public,

both dressed, you can see her naked.

that when you talk with her, an intimate

conversation, no touch, no skin

revealed,

yet it feels as if you [ __ ]

That's her man.

That when she closed her eyes, doesn't

matter what she face emotionally,

she knows she can be that next to you.

By her being herself, by her feeling

safe to be in front of you

in her journey of becoming

that woman who knows what she likes or

don't like in bed,

she grows into loving you, into wanting

you more. There is no danger that if

she's silent in bed and doesn't moan too

loud and doesn't suck your dick too deep

and you won't leave her and you won't

you won't replace her for for nobody

else.

If that's what she knows,

she's yours forever.

Nobody else can replace you either.

Those who invented a woman who comes

three times in a row

never was able to make a woman come

once.

Because if she comes once,

she can't move. She doesn't need a

second time or third time. You doesn't

need either because you witnessed her

being her most self, her most vulnerable

self, her most courageous self in front

of you.

And in other words, she allowed you

to walk with her

a very intimate

once in a-lifetime walk.

A woman does one time in her life. This

road of getting to know what she likes

or don't like in bed

is a one long walk, but it's only once.

And if she lets you witness that and

walk with her into building her identity

in bed,

you are her man and she is your woman

and none of you are replaceable.

You should aim to be the provider of her

feelings. There is a lot of pressure

nowadays on men to be financially stable

so they can provide and on the women to

be such a sexual bump.

Yet none of you are knowing

what's the meaning of you being

together. Because if that's your ex

income, if somebody comes with another

zero behind your income, you're

replaceable.

And you should be irreplaceable.

And the only way for you to be

irreplaceable is to provide her feelings

that nobody else can.

Not even herself

because she can be herself alone.

Now imagine she can be herself in front

of you.

That's sex.