20 Years Down The Drain: Why She Left Him Anyway (Hypergamy)”

Hey, what's going on guys? It's another

beautiful day out here on the front

porch as you can tell and you guys know

I like to use these days

to cover subscriber stories and I've got

a good one for you.

So, be sure you guys stick around to the

end because this is one of those stories

that

just goes to show you that no matter how

much of a top shelf man that you think

that you really are

the women

or the woman that you're with can still

do things to jeopardize that

relationship or

make things difficult. So,

as always guys

this guy's going to see these comments.

He's going to see this video. Be sure

you be respectful

and make sure to sound off down in the

comments below after I read this to you

because I think you guys are going to

have a lot to say and I'm sure there's a

lot of guys out there watching this

video right now

that have dealt with this type type of

thing. So,

without talking any further, I'm just

going to go ahead and get right into it.

This is from

my boy Andres. Thank you Andres for

writing in, bro.

Hell of a story. He says, "Hi Casey.

First of all, thank you for the work

that you do. When I say that your videos

have helped me

I truly mean it. Not sure where I would

be without hearing other stories that

you've shared. I'm finally ready to

share my story even though it's still

very fresh.

This might be one of the longest

submissions you've received, but I

believe that it will be worth your time.

It's unique, so bear with me.

I'm still processing everything myself,

but I want other men to know that

they're not alone in feeling this level

of devastation after a divorce

no matter how strong you think you are.

Well, as far as

the email being long, bro, that's just

more ad revenue. So, good stuff here and

I love seeing emails like this. So,

thank you so much for writing in. He

says, "My relationship with my ex

spanned

20 years."

Think about that, guys. 20 years.

>> [clears throat]

>> I'll do my best to highlight the major

moments, but know this is just the tip

of the iceberg. My efforts went far

beyond what any letter or or even a book

could fully capture.

>> [snorts]

>> I'm a 37-year-old white male

commercial pilot and a business owner in

the USA.

I was born and raised in a mud hut in

the remote wilderness of Africa with no

running water or electricity.

I know this sounds made up, but it's

100% true.

It was incredibly hard and a very unique

childhood.

Getting from that mud hut to where I am

today, a successful pilot and a business

owner in America.

It was an extremely difficult road road

that felt impossible. I'm sure it was,

bro. I kind of envy your work ethic,

man.

Good stuff, bro.

Our story began when she was 15

and I was 16. So, this was like a young

love, you know?

Like a young maybe a summer started from

a summer. We'll see. We'll see.

She was my high school sweetheart.

We were together for 20 years and

married for 7 years. I built my entire

life around

being the best husband and man that I

could possibly be for her. Nothing was

more important to me than taking care of

her and building the best possible life

for us

even when it came at a great personal

sacrifice.

So, from the get from the get-go, dude,

this guy is already like being a man.

At like what? 16 years old? From the

from the very beginning, I fell deeply

in love with her. I didn't have a car

so a few days a week I'd ride my bike 20

miles round trip just to sit in her

driveway for an hour at sunset and talk

with her.

Our high school years were great, but I

quickly became her main source of

support.

Once I got a junkie car, I drove us to

school, I drove us to work, I paid for

all of our dates, I bought her a cell

phone, I helped fix her car and provided

things her parents should have been

handling.

I was proud to be the one that loved

her. I was proud to be the one that

protected her

and provided for her

the most.

One year into our relationship when she

was 16, her mother essentially abandoned

her to move to another city with

her boyfriend.

She, meaning the girlfriend, moved into

my parents' house with me instead of

moving into another city

to another city with her mother.

And the moment she moved in, something

shifted in me. I decided right then that

I would do whatever it took

to build an amazing life for her.

I vowed to never quit

to never surrender to hardship.

At 16, my mindset became fully focused

on duty and responsibility.

I wanted to be the man who would never

leave her never fail her

and never break a promise.

I wanted to be her unbreakable bedrock,

he says.

Dude, this story needs like minimal

commentary.

With that promise in mind, I looked at

our situation.

The truth is, we were very poor.

I sat her down and I was brutally honest

even at 16

that I did not want children.

I never said maybe or we'll see.

Sometimes you just know things at a

young age.

So, I guess this guy he was Andres was

just dead set on not having kids.

Just kind of odd at 16, but

hey, to each their own, you know, as

they say.

I told her I would build her an

incredible life

filled with an unshakable love, true

stability, world travel, and lifelong

adventures instead of children.

At this time, she happily agreed.

So, I

got to work like a dog with a bone, he

says.

I started with nothing.

I worked two or three jobs at a time

laying brick yard work, fixing cars,

construction, warehouses, even ranch

hand work.

Really anything to provide. When those

jobs weren't enough, my brother and I

started a manufacturing business from

scratch.

We secured $800,000 in loans and we went

all in. These are These are men, bro.

These are [ __ ] men.

We lived in a rented office space.

There was only one small bed that we

could afford, so my brother and I slept

on used dog beds with second-hand sheets

while she got the bed.

I always put her comfort and well-being

first.

Bro, you guys were sleeping on dog beds?

Bro.

Over the next few years, the company

took off. We paid our debts and I was

able to put a small down payment on our

first humble home

at around age 24. I paid for her college

degree and helped her get established.

When the business hit up hit tough

times, we